Your No-BS Guide to Lasting Longer In Bed

How To Last Longer In Bed

One thing I’ve learned over the years – both through my own experiences and from coaching others – is that men are all quivering bundles of anxieties and insecurities. We’re not allowed to actually, y’know, voice most of these concerns – goes against Man Code, after all – but we sure as hell feel them. And it’s that [...]

How To Be An Amazing Kisser

One that can lead to *other* full-body activities.

A lot of men’s anxiety when it comes to women is performance based. Men tend to be worried – especially when they’re relatively inexperienced with respect to dating – that they’re not going to measure up. It’s the fear that they’ll have come so far and worked on so much just to get in the game in the first place… but [...]

Ask Dr. NerdLove: Did I Throw Away Love For Sex?

Ask Dr. NerdLove

Dear Dr. NerdLove, I could really use some smart advice right now! For most of my life, I’ve only been with one man. He’s good-looking, has a great job, my friends and parents like him, and most importantly, he genuinely loves and cares for me. I never questioned being together but quite randomly after many [...]

F*ck Like A Gentleman (Pt. 2)

Fuck Like A Gentleman (Pt. 2)

On Monday we talked about the paradoxes inherent in male sexuality and the culture that encourages men to have sex with women while simultaneously degrading them for being willing to do so, and my belief that it’s possible to get the sex you want while also not being an asshole. After all, speaking strictly from a position [...]

F*ck Like A Gentleman (Pt. 1)

Fuck Like A Gentleman

I’m lucky enough to have many single female friends who are active on the dating scene, especially ones who like to share with me their dating exploits. It provides me with a window into a world that – as a man – I have limited experience with, and helps give a much-appreciated perspective on just [...]