Guest Post: I Was A 26-Year Old Virgin

Somehow, the glamor of being a unique and special snowflake isn't the heart-warming after-school special that we were promised.

Hey folks, Doc here. This week, we’re doing something a little different. Instead of the usual dating advice, we’re having two guests stopping by to share their experiences and advice. One of the things I’m always saying is that one of the most important things when it comes to relationships is simply taking the time […]

Ask Dr. NerdLove: My Boyfriend Watches Porn

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Hey guys, before I get to today’s letters, I want to let you know: next week I’m doing things a little differently. We’re going to have a couple of guest writers who’ve generously agreed to share some of their thoughts and experiences with the world of dating from a woman’s perspective. In fact, on Friday, […]

The Truth About Casual Sex (and How To Get it)

"I don't get it. How could porn have lied to me?"

One of the oldest canards – something I’ve written about before, in fact – is the idea that women don’t like sex, especially casual sex, as much as men do. It’s the subject of many a heated debate, the punchline to hacky comedians’ jokes and the background noise in movies and sitcoms since pretty much forever. […]

The Power of Uncertainty

"I know, right?"

One of the things I like to do as a dating coach is to keep up with the latest research on relationships and dating. So naturally, I like to read the latest studies coming from esteemed peer-reviewed journals such as, er. Esquire Magazine. Joking aside, the article Here’s What Happened When Our Bosses Forced Us […]

Ask Dr. NerdLove: My Husband Doesn’t Want Me Anymore

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Hi Dr Nerdlove My husband and I have been married for almost 5 years. We connected immediately over Farscape and an epic scrabble game, and tied the knot 6 months from our first date, pregnant with our first child. He became stepdad to my older two kids, and we’ve since had two more babies together, […]