Ask Dr. NerdLove: Non-Monogamy Blues

Hi Dr. NerdLove! I am in a happy relationship of nearly 5 years, I love my girlfriend and we are both very happy. Around 1 year ago I felt like I needed more close relationships with other people. I told my girlfriend I was polyamorous and that although I loved her, I wanted more than […]

How To Get Laid (Without Being A Fuckboy)

If you’ve spent, oh, any time online, you’ll have come across the term “Fuckboy”, especially when it comes to dating. In one of the more fascinating (if you like semiotics and lexicography) examples of linguistic migration, fuckboy was first popularized by Cam’ron in the song “Boy, Boy” and spread out from there to other artists’ […]

What To Do When You’ve Been Cheated On

Out of the many perils that couples face over the course of their relationships, the specter of being cheated on is one of the most common – and most anxiety-producing. Infidelity within a relationship is one of the few sins that almost everybody agrees as being always wrong – upwards of 80% of people will tell you so. […]

What Men Should Have Learned in Sex Ed

One of the most common questions – according to my incoming Google searches, anyway – that guys seem to have is about casual sex: how to get it, why don’t women like it as much as they do, etc. As I’ve said many times, the reason why women aren’t as into casual sex as men […]

Ask Dr. NerdLove: Help, I’m Obsessed With Virginity

Fair warning Doc, I don’t know if you or I will be able to distill this into one single question or issue. I have too many questions and too little sexual or romantic experience to properly know what I want. I’m a very confused and sexually frustrated 22 year old (non-religious) virgin male. Being a […]