Hey Doc, If you have the time, I was hoping you might be able to give me an outsider’s perspective on something I’ve been thinking about lately: Celibacy. Not taking a vow of, or asexuality, and not dealing with celibacy forced from not being able to find a partner, but voluntary celibacy, that has lasted…
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Ask Dr. NerdLove: Pretty Woman (UPDATE)
Hi Dr. NerdLove, Can I just say how great it is that you’ve got this site going? I’ve been reading your articles for a few months now, and you strike me as a very down-to-earth person who’s got good sense. Truth is, I need your advice. I’m going through my own transformation from person I…
The Unbelievable Secret To Getting More Sex
One of the ongoing complaints I see amongst my readers and in society in general is sex. Most people aren’t getting laid enough… and they don’t know what to do about it. Whether it’s a case of chasing after numbers, finding a no-strings-attached hook-up , a lack of nookie in a committed relationship or even…
In Defense of Pick Up
I’d thought I was done with talking about “Above The Game”, Ken Hoinsky’s Kickstarter to self-publish a pick-up manual. Looks like I’ve got a bit more to say. Hoinsky’s project was successfully funded despite the hue and cry, and the money was released to him as per standard Kickstarter policy. In the aftermath, Kickstarter issued…
The Trouble With Pick-Up Artists
On Wednesday, a Kickstarter project for a self-published book on picking up women entitled “Above The Game” started rocketing across blogs and Twitter. The author, a regular poster on r/seduction, a sub-Reddit dedicated to exchanging tips on meeting and hooking up with women, was looking for $2,000. He ended up getting over $16,000 – mostly…
Anatomy Lesson: Escaping The Friend Zone
Over the last couple of years, we’ve been talking about how to improve your dating life, from making yourself look better, improving your ability to approach and charm friends and strangers, fixing the attitudes and self-limiting beliefs that hold you back and even how to find more sex. However, while it’s good to learn about…