Doc, I need your help with this girl. So typical text game. I met her through my friends. She messaged me on facebook saying that “she was told to contact me” she instantly said that I looked handsome blah blah blah etc. We ended up texting and everything went great. I worked my way from…
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The 20, 30, and 40+ Year Old Virgin
There are few topics more fraught with anxiety and confusion – for men and women – than the idea of virginity. I can’t count the number of letters I’ve gotten from virgin readers, men and women of just about every age who have not had sex yet and are desperately afraid that they’re “too late”. Some may have…
Ask Dr. NerdLove: Paying For It
Hi Doc, Do you think it’s a good idea to rely on escorts for sex? At least till I get better to the point of getting laid all by myself. I am currently quite inexperienced, socially un-calibrated and haven’t even kissed a girl. (age 23). The general society seems to have a very negative attitude…
Ask Dr. NerdLove: Use It Or Lose It
Doctor’s Note: I’m on vacation until the 12th of January. Until then, Paging Dr. NerdLove is going to be on a limited hiatus. The podcast will return when I’m back in town and meanwhile, I’ll be answering some quick questions for Ask Dr. NerdLove in lieu of the usual schedule. If you’ve got a question…
No Resolutions
Now that the Christmas holidays are over, it’s time for my second favorite holiday of the year: New Year’s Eve. Who doesn’t love a night dedicated to celebrating the end of a year (or a giving it a swift kick in the ass out the door, depending on how your year went) and the infinite possibilities that…
Ask Dr. NerdLove: Sensitivity Training
Doctor- one of my best friends in the entire world is in an on-again-off-again toxic relationship, seriously I knew it was horrible and I read your article on toxic relationships and it fit him and his girl to a T. I was afraid to show him the article since: 1. he already knows I can’t…