On Women and Casual Sex Part 2: Flings, One Night Stands, and Same Night Lays

"What happens next is just between you, me, and 400 of my closest friends on Facebook."

So last time we talked about one of the eternal questions: why aren’t women more receptive to casual sex? The common answer is that women approach sex differently than men do – whether it’s treating sex as a way of getting a relationship,  leveraging their “superior” social status in order to screen out less-desirable males or [...]

How To Banter (Without Being an Asshole)

"OK... impress me."

Is there anything quite as sexy as someone with wit and a way with words? There’s a reason why a sense of humor is almost always at the top of everybody’s list of most attractive attributes; being able to make someone laugh makes them feel good. Humor builds rapport, and finding things that we both [...]

What Is Chemistry? Part One: Building Sexual Tension

"Oh god, you're never going to return my calls..."

Ask anyone “What are some of the most important parts of a date?” and one of the most common answers you will get is “Chemistry”. Of course, when you ask them to describe chemistry, you’ll hear a mix of inconclusive – and fairly unhelpful – answers: “It’s… you know. That spark.” “That intensity.” “That feeling…” “That moment [...]

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Avoiding The Friend Zone

.... but they all feel a lot like this!

This week marks the one year anniversary of Paging Dr. NerdLove, which I’m finding absolutely astounding. And I can only say “thank you” to everybody who’s been with me so far and who’s just joined me. I can’t do it without you all. Since it is the first anniversary of the blog, I thought that it [...]

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