Dear Dr. NerdLove,
My boyfriend and I have been together several years and we’ve experimented in lots of things sexually as he was more experienced than I was.
I really want to do some of the things he has done, such as threesomes with guys and girls, but he doesn’t want to since we are in a committed relationship and have talked about one day getting married and having a family. He thinks it will tear us apart and we will lose love/respect for one another. I want to try out these different things before I settle down. I’m not sure what to do. I feel as though he got to experience all the fantasies he wanted before he met me, so why cant I experience my fantasies before we marry and start our family together?
He even gets turned on during sex if I talk about being with other guys and girls ….. why cant we actually do it?
– Frustrated Female