Dear Dr. NerdLove, I came across some of your writing and find your style very engaging and to the point. It’s refreshing to see relationship advice that is as direct as it is insightful. Though I enjoy reading this sort of thing, I never would have envisioned actually sending a question to a “relationship…
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I’m Afraid I’ll Be Forever Alone… And It’s Not My Fault!
Hello Sir I want to preface this letter by saying that I don’t believe that I am “forever alone” because of my looks, height, or lack of social skills. I’m 6 “1” and I’ve been told by people that I’ve met that I am fairly handsome, and although I do have social anxiety and (mild)…
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Help, My Ex Is Dating Someone Else and I Can’t Handle It
Dear Doc, I recently got out of a three year relationship that was my longest so far. It wasn’t perfect and the breakup want pretty. There was a lot of toxicity between me and my ex and we were in two different places in life. Since my ex moved out of my house. I’ve been…
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How Do I Finally Break Out of My Shell Around Women?
Hi Dr. NerdLove, I’ve stumbled across this site about a year ago and have really been reading and trying to take your advice in all kinds of areas of my life. I have always been fearful of showing my vulnerability to people and it even lead to issues with some of my ex-girlfriends. I have…
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5 Mistakes That Men Make Approaching Women
So, I have a confession to make: I have a perverse love of weird, dumb or just plain batshit dating advice that gets passed around like golden nuggets of wisdom. This means that Twitter is a bonanza of bullshit to comb through for laughs that range from “wait, this has to be fake” to “oh God you’re…
How Do I Know I Won’t Be Forever Alone?
Hi Dr. NerdLove. I appreciate your sane advice for dating, especially in this age. Unfortunately I have recently got into a bit of a rut as I am trying to improve my non-existent dating life. Forgive me for my bad grammar as English is not my first language. The best way for me to explain…