Hey Doc, I need an honest opinion from you on something that I feel shame and guilt, after I give some more details: am I fetishizing women? I seem to be only attracted to very curvy women with wide hips, thick legs, “pawgs,” “bbws,” etc. I’ve dated a variety of body types throughout my twenties…
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Ask Dr. NerdLove: Are My Standards Too High?
Hi Doc, really need your advice about a sensitive topic – So first things first, this is going to be a long one. A little background; I’m what you may describe as a “late bloomer” to the dating world. I’m a 29 year old woman who never went out on any kind of date in…
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Do You Pass The Grimes Test?
There are no cookies for meeting minimum standards. Just sayin’…
Ask Dr. NerdLove: Do I Have To Settle For Less?
Dear Dr. NerdLove, I don’t date much … at all … but read your page regularly as it’s helped give me some perspective on many of my dating frustrations. About a year ago when I met this very attractive and very interesting woman through work, but didn’t think too much of it. For the record,…
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What To Look For In A Woman
Guys are surprisingly bad at knowing what we want. No, seriously. Ever been hanging out with a buddy who insists that every woman he’s ever dated is “a complete psycho bitch“? Or the friend who seems to attract constant drama llamas who are continually having some sort of crisis in their lives? How about the guys…
How To Get What You Want in Dating
I want to talk to you a little about the idea of success and dating. There is no one definition of success when it comes to a person’s love life. We all come into this with completely different goals, goals that may well change over time. One person’s definition may be to fulfill his desire to…