The Subtle Things That Make Men More Attractive

Be More Attractive

We worry a lot about being attractive. After all, most of you’re reading this site for dating advice and there’s no question that being attractive gives people a leg up when it comes to dating. But what people seldom realize is that there’s a difference between “good looks” and “being attractive”. To give a concrete example: […]

Five Quick Ways To Improve Your Looks

"Yup, I make this look goood."

Contrary to the way pop-culture portrays us, men tend to be very anxious in their physical appearance. In fact, most of us are painfully insecure about it. Very few people are truly happy with how they look. No matter how objectively attractive any of us may be, when we look in the mirror, all we can see is […]

Leveling Up: Standing Out (The Right Way)

Proof that smoking, alcoholism and womanizing make you 100% cooler.

I’ve been looking forward to the release of Baz Luhrman’s The Great Gatsby ever since the first trailer – even if you ignore the inevitable criticism of the excesses of the Jazz Age, it’s hard to not be swept up in the costumes, the pageantry, the Art Deco architecture and, of course, the way everybody […]

Leveling Up: Building A Cool Wardrobe

And when I say "timeless" I mean LITERALLY.

One of the aspects of looking better and making yourself more attractive is your clothes. Not to put too fine a point on it but… frankly, men (and especially geeky guys) fall down rather frequently when it comes to dressing with any sense of style. Not that I necessarily blame them, mind you. Fact of […]

The Appeal of “Bad Boys”

Narcissistic. Drug abuser. Unable to keep it in his pants. Perpetually running out of money. All he needed was to be in a band to get  "bad boyfriend" yahtzee.

If there is one thing that men, especially nerdy, geekier men – men more prone to be Nice Guys and White Knights – will complain about when it comes to their dating problems, it’s that women don’t like “nice” men. No, frustrating the millions of men who heard “I wish I could meet a nice guy like […]