Guest Post: Finding Your Inner Catwoman

Doctor’s Note: Hey all.  One of the frequent requests I get from my readers is to add a little more help specifically for the geeky women out there who have just as hard a time finding love or sex as their male counterparts do. Since my advice is based on my perspective as a guy […]

Ask Dr. NerdLove: Dancing On My Own

Hello, Doctor!  First of all, I would like to thank you for your wonderful articles which I find very helpful even though I am a girl. I found out that I have never given much thought to some issues that you addressed in them. For example, after reading about creeper behavior and that poor girl […]

Ask Dr. NerdLove: Stacking The Deck

Hi Dr. Nerdlove. Can you help?  There is a guy who is attractive and as a gay person I find it difficult to tell if others are gay. We “jokingly” flirting and I’m not sure if he is serious or not. He doesn’t know that I’m gay. How could I find out? How can I […]

Paging Dr. NerdLove Episode #08: Why Don’t Women Approach and Other Questions

This week, Dr. NerdLove hits the NerdLove Hotline and answers your questions! Why don’t women approach men more often? How far is too far to drive for a date? Are there any tips for women to get more attention in online dating? …and more! Got a dating issue that you need Dr. NerdLove’s help with? […]

Ask Dr. NerdLove: Dance Hall Days

Hi Doc, First let me say I’ve been following your blog for a while now and I’m a big fan.  That being said, let me share my story with you. This past Saturday night I visited the Temple nightclub in San Francisco for a little dancing.  Shortly after eleven I was up on the dance […]