Ask Dr. NerdLove: Stacking The Deck

Ask Dr. NerdLove

Hi Dr. Nerdlove. Can you help?  There is a guy who is attractive and as a gay person I find it difficult to tell if others are gay. We “jokingly” flirting and I’m not sure if he is serious or not. He doesn’t know that I’m gay. How could I find out? How can I [...]

Paging Dr. NerdLove Episode #08: Why Don’t Women Approach and Other Questions

This week, Dr. NerdLove hits the NerdLove Hotline and answers your questions! Why don’t women approach men more often? How far is too far to drive for a date? Are there any tips for women to get more attention in online dating? …and more! Got a dating issue that you need Dr. NerdLove’s help with? [...]

Ask Dr. NerdLove: Dance Hall Days

Hi Doc, First let me say I’ve been following your blog for a while now and I’m a big fan.  That being said, let me share my story with you. This past Saturday night I visited the Temple nightclub in San Francisco for a little dancing.  Shortly after eleven I was up on the dance [...]

Group Dynamics

"OK, maybe you can hang with us after all."

You know what intimidates the hell out of guys trying to meet new women? Large groups. If you’re not the most outgoing of people, if you’re a little on the socially awkward side, there’s nothing quite as bad as seeing someone you’re interested in and realizing that she’s there with a group of friends. Maybe [...]

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Talkin’ Nerdy: Talking About Your Geeky Interests

Korra

I’ve talked a bit about how nerds have an unfortunate tendency to buy into the self-limiting belief that being a nerd is somehow a hinderance to dating. It’s always struck me as a little odd; generally we like to say that we’re proud to be geeks, but when it comes to talking about the things we’re [...]