During his first trip to a strip club, a dancer gave him her number and asked him to call. Did he make a connection, or is this just a scam?
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How Do I Learn To Be Vulnerable and Open Up To Others?
Howdy Doc, I’ve been reading your blogs and watching your videos for a few months now, and would like your input on something. So, I’m a guy who struggles with vulnerability and opening up. Yeah, I know. Super original. Right up there with Villains Wear Black and Elf with a Bow. My social skills are…
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How Do I Re-Learn How To Talk To Strangers and Make New Friends?
Dear Dr. NerdLove, I came out of a fourteen-year marriage a few years ago, and I’m still pulling myself together. While the marriage was over long before it was over, it was financially devastating, and I’ve just about gotten myself back on my feet. I’ve tried online dating, but I gave it up because it…
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Should I Get Plastic Surgery In Order To Get Dates?
Dear Dr. NerdLove: Would it be too much trouble for you to help solve an ongoing debate between me and my friends? I’m a brand-new college graduate and the “ugly” one in my friend group, just as I was in high school and will probably always be. I’m slim, fit, tallish but not too tall,…
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How Do I Date When I Don’t Know What I Want?
Hi Doc, I’ve been reading your column for a little while now, and a lot of your advice has really been helpful for me in reframing some of my hangups around dating. Writing in now though because I have a problem that I don’t think I’ve seen addressed (or I just might have missed in…
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Why Is It So Hard To Meet A Good Man?
Hi Dr. NerdLove, I’m a 29 year old woman who is really struggling to get into a relationship. I have tried so many things, and I just don’t know where to go from here. I have a good job, a few great relatives, and some fantastic friends. I’m not unhappy, but I would really like…