Starting From Zero

Starting From Zero

One of the common complaints I hear from readers is that they have absolutely no dating history or experience and don’t know where to begin. And in fairness, while I do have a number of articles in The Basics that cover the dating fundamentals, sometimes it can be hard to know just where to begin. After all, [...]

The Art of Cold Approach Pt 2 – Daytime Approaches

"Woah, Didn't know 50 Shades of Grey came with a workbook."

On Monday, we broke down the basics of a cold approach – the opening, building rapport, qualifying and making the move. This is going to be the outline of most of your attempts at meeting people, whether you’re looking for a potential date, a potential sex partner, a new friend or a networking possibility. The [...]

The Art of Cold Approach Pt 1 – The Basics

Don't mind us. We're just quietly judging you.

Now that Nerdi Gras is over and we’re all coming back down from the sensory overload and What-The-Fuckery of all of the panels (Age of Ultron? Seriously? SERIOUSLY?), it’s time to get back to the business of improving your social life and meeting new people. While there are many, many ways of doing this – online [...]

The Hardest Lessons To Learn

"Boys, boys, there's an easy way to settle this..."

As we reach the height of summer, it means that we’re approaching the climax of con season. Rooster Teeth Expo, Spill Dot Con, Anime Expo and CONvergence all occurred over the previous weekend, and the geek-gasm will be reaching it’s peak with the celebration of Nerdi Gras at the San Diego Comic-Con all next week. And, as [...]

How To Make Dating Easier

They bonded over their mutual love of fine wines and subtly mocking hipsters' mustaches.

I’ve lost track of how many people I’ve known who’ve told me they hate dating. And to be perfectly honest, I thought they were crazy. Dating was awesome. I loved the thrill of the chase, the intoxicating nervousness and energy that came from getting to know somebody new, the flirting back and forth as we tried to [...]