Ask Dr. NerdLove: Go Away, Wait A Minute

Ask Dr. NerdLove

 Hey there Dr. Nerdlove!  I simply wanted to drop you a line, I really appreciate the fact that you offer sex positive and feminist oriented dating advice. One of my big problem with the pick up community when I started getting into it is that it made me into a somewhat awful individual that didn’t [...]

Ask Dr. NerdLove: Just A Friend

Ask Dr. NerdLove

Hey Doc,  You may of covered a lot of what I have to ask before, but here it goes. I have a really close friend, that i’m crazy about. I’ve asked her out in he past but that was at a time that she just wasn’t looking for a relationship (she is very commitment-phobic) Recently [...]

Ask Dr. NerdLove: Time Enough For Love

Ask Dr. NerdLove

Hey Doc, I REALLY need your help. I’m begging you… I’m going to cut to the chase. I suffer mental illness and boy did it fuck up my past relationship. I was with a guy from Canada for 2 1/2 years so I already had THAT against me being an American. While I admittedly had [...]

Ask Dr. NerdLove: Ludicrous Speed!

Ask Dr. NerdLove

Hi Doc, I’m not very good at cutting to the chase, but I’ll make my best effort. I’m sailing some weird waters, making a connection with someone I met through a dating website. She’s trans. That’s not really the problem, but it complicates the problem. I live with my parents. I dated a disaster a [...]

Ask Dr. NerdLove: Schrödinger’s Come-On

Ask Dr. NerdLove

Dear Dr. Nerdlove, I’m a nerd of the female persuasion, with a loving and nerdly partner whom I’m about to marry. Things are great with him; our relationship is the best thing that ever happened to me. However, our romance grew from an existing friendship, and he is the first and only person I’ve ever [...]