Ask Dr. NerdLove: I Have A Crush on My Best Friend. Now What?

Ask Dr. NerdLove

Hey there, Doc Recently I turned fifteen, and met this girl four months ago through mutual friends. As I talked to her I realized we shared the same taste in music, films and sense of humor. She was really nice to me and we have talked very often ever since. About two months ago I developed a pretty big crush on her. […]

Ask Dr. NerdLove: The Proper Etiquette of Facebook Stalking

Ask Dr. NerdLove

Hey Doc, I have a dilemma. I’ve been lacking courage with women in my life, and been taking steps recently to have more courage and take action to go talk to women I’m interested in. Yesterday, I took one of these steps. I went to talk to a performer of the improv show I went […]

Iris Allen, Laurel Lance and Lois Lane Syndrome

"No, it's OK, she figures it out eventually!"

Pardon me while I go off on a bit of a media criticism/ rant here So I’ve been enjoying the *hell* out of The Flash lately except for one thing: Iris Allen. Her character is screen death; every time she’s around, everything comes to a screeching halt. The problem is: it’s not her fault, it’s […]

Ask Dr. NerdLove: Should I Talk To My Ex?

Ask Dr. NerdLove

Hey Dr NerdLove, Is there ever a place for flat-out ignoring people? Long story short, I met a girl in AA, I was 9 months sober and she was 2 years in. I went through a situation where my girlfriend of six months 1) cheated on me with, and then 2) left me for her […]

Ask Dr. NerdLove: Do I Tell My Crush Her Boyfriend Is Cheating On Her?

Ask Dr. NerdLove

Doctor NerdLove, I was hoping that you could possibly help me with a very difficult situation I’m in. The girl I’ve been interested in for the past month, who is also quite a good friend of mine, has a boyfriend who is by no means a decent human being. The other day I discovered that […]