Ask Dr. NerdLove: Should I Talk To My Ex?

Ask Dr. NerdLove

Hey Dr NerdLove, Is there ever a place for flat-out ignoring people? Long story short, I met a girl in AA, I was 9 months sober and she was 2 years in. I went through a situation where my girlfriend of six months 1) cheated on me with, and then 2) left me for her [...]

Ask Dr. NerdLove: Do I Tell My Crush Her Boyfriend Is Cheating On Her?

Ask Dr. NerdLove

Doctor NerdLove, I was hoping that you could possibly help me with a very difficult situation I’m in. The girl I’ve been interested in for the past month, who is also quite a good friend of mine, has a boyfriend who is by no means a decent human being. The other day I discovered that [...]

Ask Dr. NerdLove: Go Away, Wait A Minute

Ask Dr. NerdLove

 Hey there Dr. Nerdlove!  I simply wanted to drop you a line, I really appreciate the fact that you offer sex positive and feminist oriented dating advice. One of my big problem with the pick up community when I started getting into it is that it made me into a somewhat awful individual that didn’t [...]

Ask Dr. NerdLove: Just A Friend

Ask Dr. NerdLove

Hey Doc,  You may of covered a lot of what I have to ask before, but here it goes. I have a really close friend, that i’m crazy about. I’ve asked her out in he past but that was at a time that she just wasn’t looking for a relationship (she is very commitment-phobic) Recently [...]

Ask Dr. NerdLove: Time Enough For Love

Ask Dr. NerdLove

Hey Doc, I REALLY need your help. I’m begging you… I’m going to cut to the chase. I suffer mental illness and boy did it fuck up my past relationship. I was with a guy from Canada for 2 1/2 years so I already had THAT against me being an American. While I admittedly had [...]