Ask Dr. NerdLove: The Proper Etiquette of Facebook Stalking

Ask Dr. NerdLove

Hey Doc, I have a dilemma. I’ve been lacking courage with women in my life, and been taking steps recently to have more courage and take action to go talk to women I’m interested in. Yesterday, I took one of these steps. I went to talk to a performer of the improv show I went […]

Iris Allen, Laurel Lance and Lois Lane Syndrome

"No, it's OK, she figures it out eventually!"

Pardon me while I go off on a bit of a media criticism/ rant here So I’ve been enjoying the *hell* out of The Flash lately except for one thing: Iris Allen. Her character is screen death; every time she’s around, everything comes to a screeching halt. The problem is: it’s not her fault, it’s […]

Ask Dr. NerdLove: Should I Talk To My Ex?

Ask Dr. NerdLove

Hey Dr NerdLove, Is there ever a place for flat-out ignoring people? Long story short, I met a girl in AA, I was 9 months sober and she was 2 years in. I went through a situation where my girlfriend of six months 1) cheated on me with, and then 2) left me for her […]

Ask Dr. NerdLove: Do I Tell My Crush Her Boyfriend Is Cheating On Her?

Ask Dr. NerdLove

Doctor NerdLove, I was hoping that you could possibly help me with a very difficult situation I’m in. The girl I’ve been interested in for the past month, who is also quite a good friend of mine, has a boyfriend who is by no means a decent human being. The other day I discovered that […]

Ask Dr. NerdLove: Go Away, Wait A Minute

Ask Dr. NerdLove

 Hey there Dr. Nerdlove!  I simply wanted to drop you a line, I really appreciate the fact that you offer sex positive and feminist oriented dating advice. One of my big problem with the pick up community when I started getting into it is that it made me into a somewhat awful individual that didn’t […]