Doctor’s Note: this column includes discussion of self-harm Hi Doc, I don’t know how to explain this, so I’ll give some background. I’m a 25 guy who never kissed a girl or held hands and so on. I’ve been rejected all my life and in many mean ways, always being told I was too ugly,…
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How Do I Tell My Partner I Didn’t Cheat?
Doctor’s Note: today’s letter deals with rape and includes explicit descriptions of sexual assault. Dear Dr. NerdLove: I had been with my partner for almost 10 years. Some significant things happened in my life and I hit a really low depression. Our relationship took a toll for it. Insert a mutual somewhat friend of ours….
Help, My Boyfriend’s Phone Is More Important to Him Than I Am.
Dear Dr. NerdLove: I’ve been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now. We generally communicate well and approach each other with problems and work together to solve them, in regards to both life and our relationship together. We have a healthy sex life and see each other for at least a couple hours usually…
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How Does He Rebuild The Life He Ruined?
Hello, Doc. I have a series of problems, four points that I desperately wanted to address and have answers to. Just a note, I may well bring this up in case it changes anything, but I am diagnosed with Asperger’s Syndrome, and have difficulty socializing with others. 1) I’m still being haunted by the memories…
I Want To Find a Friend With Benefits… But I Don’t Know How.
Hello Doc, I am not currently in the mental state to be in a long term, committed relationship, but I would like to be intimate with a woman/women. But I have no idea how this even happens. How does it start? And especially, how does a guy even bring up this idea without being labelled…
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How Do I Stop Being Envious of Other Couples?
Hello Doc, I am a 22 year old heterosexual guy. For context, I never had a sexual and/or romantic relationship, or any sexual experience of any kind. “Nevertheless” I still consider myself to be fairly sex-positive. Over the last few years I have come across a lot of sex-positivity related content and by now, I…
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