Survive Your Dating Emergencies

"Nerdlove - he don't shiv."

How many of you dread dates – you worry yourselves into a frenzy, imagining all of the ways things can go horribly wrong and picturing a dream date turning into an all-too-real nightmare? Over the years, I have gone on more dates than I can reasonably count. As a result, I have dealt with just about [...]

No Resolutions

Happy New Year!

Now that the Christmas holidays are over, it’s time for my second favorite holiday of the year: New Year’s Eve. Who doesn’t love a night dedicated to celebrating the end of a year (or a giving it a swift kick in the ass out the door, depending on how your year went) and the infinite possibilities that [...]

This Is Why You Fail (Or: What’s Holding You Back In Dating)

"OK, I'm positive this doesn't work."

Let me paint a common story for you: It’s been a while since you’ve started trying to get better at dating and it seems like you’re no further along than you have been before. If anything, you’re actually getting worse. The more posts you read, the more approaches you make… none of it seems to [...]

The Art of Social Calibration

"Look, this is fascinating but can it wait? I have some calibrations of my own to make."

I’d like to clear up an issue that – going by the comments both here and on the Facebook page - a lot of guys are having. A lot of guys seem to have hit a sort of information overload when it comes to worrying about coming across as creepy. They may have read about behaviors [...]

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Online Dating 201: Why Women Don’t Respond

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There’s a lot to love about online dating. You take the randomness out of trying to meet people, hoping that fate will guide you to THAT ONE SPOT you need to be AT THAT VERY SPECIFIC TIME in order to meet that special someone. If you have approach anxiety when it comes to meeting strangers [...]

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