Helping Nerds Get The Girl
Hi Dr. Nerdlove. Can you help? There is a guy who is attractive and as a gay person I find it difficult to tell if others are gay. We “jokingly” flirting and I’m not sure if he is serious or not. He doesn’t know that I’m gay. How could I find out? How can I [...]
There are few topics more fraught with anxiety and confusion – for men and women – than the idea of virginity. I can’t count the number of letters I’ve gotten from virgin readers, men and women of just about every age who have not had sex yet and are desperately afraid that they’re “too late”. Some may have [...]
Hey Doc, I’ve been beating myself up for ages, because like you used to be, I am “The One Who Girls Don’t Like Like That.” I think I’m pretty friendly, and most people don’t seem to be against the idea of spending time with me, but in terms of romance or sex I’m completely dead [...]
This week, we cross the streams as Dr. NerdLove teams up with the scintillating Sex Nerd Sandra! Together they tackle the issues surrounding sex toys, virginity and sexual inexperience. Does being a virgin mean a harder time on the dating scene? How do you bring up the topic with your date when things are getting hot [...]
Sex is an interesting thing on the academic level. Ok, it’s pretty goddamn interesting on the practical level too, but stick with me here. Culturally (western culture in particular), we’re brought up to think of it as something that’s supposed to be private and intimate, strictly between two people – preferably with a strong emotional [...]
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