The other night I was out with two of my good friends at a local bar that had live music going on to celebrate my birthday. The three of us were dancing and enjoying some drinks and I noticed a cute girl a few feet away from me by herself dancing really enjoying herself. I had no intention of talking to this girl as I was focused on spending time with my friends. There was also a middle age couple dancing and the women comes up to me while the music is playing loud and she asks me if I am single and I answered yes and she takes my hand and the girls hand I had mentioned and played the role the Cupid and paired us up to dance and introduced us to each other. I have never had a complete stranger do this before so I felt a little awkward and I couldn’t imagine how this girl felt.
We both went along with it for like a minute and unlocked hands and kind of just kept dancing close to each other for one song and then she headed off to the bar to talk to a guy. I figured this guy was a bf but i wasn’t completely sure so about 15 minutes passed and he went to the bathroom and I took this window of opportunity to go over and talk to her. It turned out this guy was just a friend and we talked for about 20 minutes mostly small talk . She then said she was going to be heading out and without me asking she said here take my number down. I was surprised I’m usually the one who is asking and it was a nice change to be offered it. I took it down said it was nice to meet you and that I would call her. So a few hours passed and I just sent her a quick ping saying it was nice meeting you and no response I figured she had gone to bed. The next day I didn’t receive a reply so I gave her a call to see if she wanted to join me to this festival I was going to Friday. She picked up and I said this blah blah from last night how are you? So I told her about the festival and she said she doesn’t know her schedule yet , she is in between jobs right now and it is all over the place . So I said I understand and when you know your schedule let me know and we can go out. She said sounds good and we ended the call.
So I guess my question is and maybe I might of interpreted wrong her interest in me. But do you think she is being flaky which I find weird because she is the one who offered me her number , I didn’t ask for it . Or if she is legitimately busy should I just wait for her call or text , I like having some control this kind of thing instead of being the one waiting for her to let me know when her schedule opens up. I’m interested in seeing where this goes but I won’t be disappointed if nothing happens. I would appreciate you advice and opinion in this.
Unexpected Dancing Guy