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No matter what you’re looking for, Dr. NerdLove is here to help you find the relationship you want.

Who Is Dr. NerdLove?

Harris O’Malley is an internationally recognized relationship expert, dating coach and syndicated advice columnist.

Famous for his ability to simplify complex dating dilemmas and solve the toughest relationship problems, he has long been sought after for coaching and advice.

Harris and his work have been featured in or on Nightline, Fusion TV, Vice, New York Magazine, The Wall Street Journal, The Washington Post, The Harvard Business Journal, The Guardian, CBC’s Out In The Open, Buzzfeed, Wired, Think Progress, Raw Story, Slate, Boing Boing, The Good Men Project, The Daily Dot, Mel Magazine, Lifehacker, Kotaku and many, many more.

Harris has been making nerds sexier since 2011.

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  • Why Do All Of My Friends Eventually Ghost Me?
    It seems like every friendship he has goes the same way: excitement, plans, activities and then… radio silence. Why does this keep happening to him?

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My Latest Columns

Why Do All Of My Friends Eventually Ghost Me?

Dr. NerdLove
April 12, 2024

It seems like every friendship he has goes the same way: excitement, plans, activities and then… radio silence. Why does this keep happening to him?

Continue Reading Why Do All Of My Friends Eventually Ghost Me?

Why Do I Fail at Making Friends As An Adult?

Dr. NerdLove
April 10, 2024

He’s trying to meet new people as an adult and everyone has time for everyone BUT him. Why is he having such a hard time making new friends?

Continue Reading Why Do I Fail at Making Friends As An Adult?

How Do I Keep Loneliness From Ruining My Love Life?

Dr. NerdLove
April 8, 2024

A traumatic break up and subsequent loss of friends have left him isolated and dateless for a decade. How can he open up about being lonely without ruining things?

Continue Reading How Do I Keep Loneliness From Ruining My Love Life?

Is My First Relationship Already Over?

Dr. NerdLove
April 5, 2024

He’s three months in to his first relationship, but there are already problems. Are these normal relationship issues or is there trouble in paradise?

Continue Reading Is My First Relationship Already Over?

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