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Ask Dr. NerdLove: Is My Friend Being Abused?

(Doctor’s Note: today’s letter deals with abusive relationships.) Hello Doc, I would normally dispense with the niceties and whatnot, but I feel like I’m in the middle of a potential crisis. The long story made short is that I’m a 23 year old guy who had just graduated from college with a bachelor’s, and there’s […]

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Episode #106 – Did #MeToo RUIN Flirting?

Did the #MeToo movement change flirting forever? Can men no longer approach women? What makes the difference between flirting and harassment in this day and age? SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:  The two types of complaints about #MeToo The goal behind the meme that men can’t flirt anymore How men are getting the point of #MeToo wrong The […]

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It’s Dangerous To Go Alone: A Relationship Survival Handbook

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Ask Dr. NerdLove: Am I Leading On My Ex?

Dear Dr. NerdLove: This is the first time I (she/her) am making an effort to stay friends with my ex (he/him). We’ve been together for three years, sharing an apartment for 1.5 years. I ended things 4 months ago and moved out 1 month ago. Since the breakup, he has asked me multiple times in […]

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When It Clicks: The Guide To Mastering Online Dating

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Ask Dr. NerdLove: My Parents Like My Ex More Than Me

Hello Doc! I broke up with my ex-girlfriend “Sam” about a year ago. It was a super serious relationship: timeline for having kids/holidays with each other’s families serious. The official reason for said breakup is that I was tired of long distance (Sam has a temporary position in the neighboring state). Reality is more complicated. […]

Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Become Someone Women Want To Date?

Hi Doc, I’m a 22 years old student and I’m currently facing difficulties in my social life. Until the past 1 or 2 years, I was living a very asocial life. Even though I’m an introvert, I managed to get back on my feet quickly and I’m pretty happy with my progress. The problem is, […]

No, Gillette Didn’t Declare War on Masculinity…

Recently, I released a video where I touched on the fact that Gillette released a new commercial that directly addressed toxic masculinity, asking men to do better and the reaction that a lot of people, mostly men, had to it. As it turns out, I have a lot more to say about it because, well, […]

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Harris O'Malley (AKA Dr. NerdLove) is an internationally recognized blogger and dating coach who gives dating advice to geeks of all stripes. Making nerds sexier since 20011

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  • Omenanoksa Dear LW, The Doc and the other commenters have given excellent advice and analyzed the content of the letter in an amazing and helpful manner so I will take a different point of view. I am going to...

    Ask Dr. NerdLove: Is My Friend Being Abused? ·  February 2, 2019

  • Omenanoksa The internet kiwi bird is also cynical. If they were so very close why did Annie not mention his fiancé before? Is that not one of the things friends mention to each other? Guaranteed, people do...

    Ask Dr. NerdLove: Is My Friend Being Abused? ·  February 2, 2019

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    Ask Dr. NerdLove: Is My Friend Being Abused? ·  February 2, 2019

  • Mike A lot of times when you go and have it out with the alleged abuser, his victim will end up taking his side once the police get involved and deny any wrongdoing on his part, which leaves you holding...

    Ask Dr. NerdLove: Is My Friend Being Abused? ·  February 2, 2019

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