Dear Dr. NerdLove: I am making active changes in my life, for personal growth. I do dialectical behavior therapy, and have PTSD counselors. There were issues in the past and I didn't deal with them, so my coping skills was never let me be out of control, being selfish, and lashing out. I always get defensive, try not to let anyone steamroll me. etc. This … [Read More...]
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I Have A Great Life. So Why Do I Feel Like A Loser?
Hey Doc, No shit, I've been reading your columns on and off for about ten years now. I'll admit that I often sneer at some of the advice because it seems so … [Read More...]
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When Does My Life Finally Get Better?
Dear Dr. NerdLove, I've been an avid reader of work for quite some time, and really tried to incorporate a more open-minded and exploratory approach to meeting … [Read More...]
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We Can’t Have Sex. What Should We Do?
Dear Dr NerdLove My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for about 3.5 years and we’ve been through a lot together and I like to think it’s a pretty solid … [Read More...]

How Do I Get Over My First Serious Heartbreak?
Hey Doc, I’ve been watching a number of your videos lately, and they’ve been a great help to me so far. However, I’m finding that I’m in a situation at the … [Read More...]

Why Do Women Love “Himbos”?
One of the topics that comes up the most often when it comes to dating advice is, paradoxically, the one that folks get wrong the most often: "what do women find … [Read More...]