Hi Doc, My question is about forming lasting relationships rather than any initial problems meeting girls. I was seeing this girl recently and initially things went really well – I felt there was a lot of chemistry and compatibility and we got physical very quickly. We had sex a couple of times and it seemed […]
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Ask Dr. NerdLove: What Does “Not Ready For A Relationship” REALLY Mean?
Dear Dr. NerdLove, I’ve been listening and reading your works for a while now, and I have found your insights and advice really helpful —and your obvert feminism and repudiation of pseudoscience wonderfully refreshing, considering what the standards of the industry sometimes seem to be. I am a 27 year-old straight male that, one year […]
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Episode #120 – What REALLY Makes A Man Attractive?
Does personality matter, or are looks the only thing that’s important? Why do guys have a hard time understanding what makes a man attractive to women? SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: How much your physique ACTUALLY matters to women Why “attraction triggers” and evolutionary psychology give men all the wrong answers How we let self-limiting beliefs sabotage our […]
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Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Stop Feeling Worthless?
Dr. NerdLove, I’m writing you on my 31st birthday, which I’ll be spending mostly alone. In 31 years on this good green earth, I have dated -maybe- three people in brief stints. For most of my life I’ve been a fat, shy, anxious nerd with weird interests and a lot of stress between my home, […]
Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Stop Being Afraid of Flirting?
Hi Doc, Despite all my efforts, my dating life has been awfully devoid of romantic connections, and I have an inkling that I might be creating that problem for myself. Maybe you can help clarify things. Some background: I’m male and 27. I used to be a shy kid in school, had few (but mostly […]
Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Stay Safe on Dating Apps?
Hello Dr. NerdLove. I recently entered online dating. After much failure, I started looking on the internet for answers. That is how I came across some of your materials (YouTube videos, then website) regarding confidence, Oneitis, etc. However, other subject that I came across is regarding avoiding scammers, including your own article here: https://www.doctornerdlove.com/dont-get-catfished/. The […]
