Dear Dr. NerdLove: So I was wondering how does an ugly guy navigate things like wanting casual sex or a friends with benefits kind of arrangement? A lot of these interactions tend to prioritize looks, but what if you don't have the looks? I don't know any examples of ugly guys getting anything casual, it seems like one of those things where if you don't … [Read More...]
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Why Do I Attract All The Wrong People?
Dear Dr. NerdLove, I'm a 28-year-old straight white male. I am a virgin who's had some minor success with online dating in the past though I still haven't gotten … [Read More...]
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Why Do I Keep Wanting My Toxic Ex?
Hi there Doc, First time writing. I like the way you think, so I'd like your take on a really annoying problem. To make a long story short, I met this guy … [Read More...]
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We Haven’t Had Sex in Months. Is My Husband Cheating On Me?
Dear Dr. NerdLove, My husband and I (he's a straight man and I'm a bi woman) have been together for 25 years, and most of the time I see him as the best partner … [Read More...]
The 5 Steps To Upgrading Your Life
During the early days of the COVID-19 pandemic, there was a lot of talk about how this was an opportunity to do things differently. Now that everyone was in … [Read More...]
Am I An Asshole If I Don’t Want to Settle for Someone In My “League”?
Dear Dr. NerdLove, My entire family is dead, and I've been living with my only close and reasonably well-off friend and her husband since losing my job and … [Read More...]
