(Doctor’s Note: today’s letter deals with abusive relationships.) Hello Doc, I would normally dispense with the niceties and whatnot, but I feel like I’m in the middle of a potential crisis. The long story made short is that I’m a 23 year old guy who had just graduated from college with a bachelor’s, and there’s […]
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Episode #106 – Did #MeToo RUIN Flirting?
Did the #MeToo movement change flirting forever? Can men no longer approach women? What makes the difference between flirting and harassment in this day and age? SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: The two types of complaints about #MeToo The goal behind the meme that men can’t flirt anymore How men are getting the point of #MeToo wrong The […]
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Ask Dr. NerdLove: Am I Leading On My Ex?
Dear Dr. NerdLove: This is the first time I (she/her) am making an effort to stay friends with my ex (he/him). We’ve been together for three years, sharing an apartment for 1.5 years. I ended things 4 months ago and moved out 1 month ago. Since the breakup, he has asked me multiple times in […]
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Ask Dr. NerdLove: My Parents Like My Ex More Than Me
Hello Doc! I broke up with my ex-girlfriend “Sam” about a year ago. It was a super serious relationship: timeline for having kids/holidays with each other’s families serious. The official reason for said breakup is that I was tired of long distance (Sam has a temporary position in the neighboring state). Reality is more complicated. […]

Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Become Someone Women Want To Date?
Hi Doc, I’m a 22 years old student and I’m currently facing difficulties in my social life. Until the past 1 or 2 years, I was living a very asocial life. Even though I’m an introvert, I managed to get back on my feet quickly and I’m pretty happy with my progress. The problem is, […]

No, Gillette Didn’t Declare War on Masculinity…
Recently, I released a video where I touched on the fact that Gillette released a new commercial that directly addressed toxic masculinity, asking men to do better and the reaction that a lot of people, mostly men, had to it. As it turns out, I have a lot more to say about it because, well, […]





