Hey Doc, I’ve been dating a particular woman (call her L) for over a month now. We’re pretty interested in each other, and if things continue like this, we’ll likely be in an official relationship soon. So far, so good, right? With many other women, we’ve had sex by the 5th date. With L, we’ve […]
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Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Drama-Proof My Relationship?
Hi Dr. NerdLove, Your column here and on Kotaku have helped me a lot in the past and I’m now in a situation where my friends are giving conflicting advice and I felt like this was the best place to turn for clarity. There’s some context before I (she/her) get into this particular situation: I’m […]
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Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Can I Fix Our Broken Sex Life?
Hey Doc, I got myself into a little bit of a pickle. I’ve been married 4 years and about a year in, at 30 years old, was diagnosed with bipolar depression. It took us about a year to get the meds figured out but it has been life changing to finally have some relief. The […]
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Ask Dr. NerdLove: Why Don’t I Want A Relationship?
Dear Doctor, Am I asexual, aromantic, or am I trying to label myself to provide an excuse for my inexperience? I’m a dude in my 20’s and I’ve never been in a relationship, on a date, or even watched porn. But I don’t think I’m asexual because I masturbate weekly using my imagination or softcore […]
Episode #109 – The Worst Dating Advice In The World
“Just be yourself” is some of the worst advice that you can give someone who wants to get better at dating. It’s also the most important. So quit just being yourself and learn how to become your BEST self. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: ▶︎ Why “just be yourself” is useless advice ▶︎ What we REALLY mean […]
Ask Dr. NerdLove: Help, My Girlfriend Wants Sex (And I Don’t)
Hi Doc, I was hoping you could help me figure out what to do in the situation i’m in. My girlfriend and I are both virgins, and we’ve have been in a relationship for two years and change. Recently – around two years ago – we ended our long-distance relationship and finally started living together. […]
