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Gossip Is Ruining My Relationship. What Should I Do?

Dear Dr. NerdLove: I am making active changes in my life, for personal growth. I do dialectical behavior therapy, and have PTSD counselors. There were issues in the past and I didn't deal with them, so my coping skills was never let me be out of control, being selfish, and lashing out. I always get defensive, try not to let anyone steamroll me. etc. This … [Read More...]

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Hey Doc, No shit, I've been reading your columns on and off for about ten years now. I'll admit that I often sneer at some of the advice because it seems so … [Read More...]

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When Does My Life Finally Get Better?

Dear Dr. NerdLove, I've been an avid reader of work for quite some time, and really tried to incorporate a more open-minded and exploratory approach to meeting … [Read More...]

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When It Clicks: The Guide To Mastering Online Dating

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We Can’t Have Sex. What Should We Do?

Dear Dr NerdLove My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for about 3.5 years and we’ve been through a lot together and I like to think it’s a pretty solid … [Read More...]

How Do I Get Over My First Serious Heartbreak?

Hey Doc, I’ve been watching a number of your videos lately, and they’ve been a great help to me so far.  However, I’m finding that I’m in a situation at the … [Read More...]

Why Do Women Love “Himbos”?

One of the topics that comes up the most often when it comes to dating advice is, paradoxically, the one that folks get wrong the most often: "what do women find … [Read More...]

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  • Jimmy Two-Hammers There are also quite a few women who are attracted to genderqueer and gender non-conforming individuals. The article doesn't at any point suggest anyone pursue being a himbo, or convert to himboism...

    Why Do Women Love “Himbos”? ·  April 13, 2021

  • Jimmy Two-Hammers "I think this is getting besides the point; my point" I was replying to Gallowglass "my point is that either way some kind of performance of hegemonic masculinity (whether physical or behavioral) is...

    Why Do Women Love “Himbos”? ·  April 13, 2021

  • Soren I wouldn't go that far: Let's not forget the progress we have made.

    Why Do Women Love “Himbos”? ·  April 13, 2021

  • Soren I think this is getting besides the point; my point is that either way some kind of performance of hegemonic masculinity (whether physical or behavioral) is expected of MLW who want to see success...

    Why Do Women Love “Himbos”? ·  April 13, 2021

  • fuzzilla Yeah, she doesn't sound genuinely sorry. She wants a certain outcome, wants the apology to be a tit for tat thing ("If this stupid b**** would just forgive me, I could get my husband back," as if her...

    Gossip Is Ruining My Relationship. What Should I Do? ·  April 13, 2021

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