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Archives for June 2011

Ask Dr. NerdLove: The Betty And Veronica Problem

Jun 30, 2011

Got a twofer for you today, folks. Let’s get this started. Hey I have a love related problem (no shit). Sometime in September last year I decided that it’s about time to get a girlfriend and I did what any illogical 15-year old would do: walked up to a girl randomly, asked her out, told…

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Learn From This: Chasing Amy

Jun 29, 2011

For this week’s movie, I give you… a Kevin Smith film. No. I’m serious. If Kevin Smith is good at anything, it’s marketing Kevin Smith. It’s almost impossible not to picture him as Silent Bob, talking about comics and Star Wars and inventing new and creative ways to use the “fuck” in a sentence. Blunt…

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Talking To Women… For The First Time.

Jun 28, 2011

One of the most frequently asked questions I receive is about approaching women and starting a conversation with them. The more confident amongst you can stop laughing now. The thing to keep in mind here is that for a subset of men, the idea of trying to start up a conversation with someone they’re attracted…

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Ask Dr. NerdLove – Let’s Go Out… Later.

Jun 28, 2011

Hi Dr NerdLove, I’ve got a problem… I like this girl and we’re close friends but I want to tell her that I like her but not actually ask her out yet. Is there any way of doing this without sounding like an idiot?

The Friend Zone myth

Jun 27, 2011

One of the most frequently asked questions I get is about the dreaded “friend zone.”* How to avoid it, how to get out of it, why do well-meaning nerds keep getting stuck in it… It’s the nerd equivalent of The Bermuda Triangle. It is the Phantom Zone of geeks. It is Oan Science Cell of…

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Talkin’ Nerdy: Talking about your passions

Jun 24, 2011

One of the most frequently asked questions I get is “How do I talk about ‘$GEEKYSUBJECT’ with girls without turning them off?” It’s not terribly surprising that geeks are afraid to talk about comics, video games, anime, what-have-you with the opposite sex; the inability to talk about anything other than geek subjects is a well-established…

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