There’s no phrase in the English language that invokes more fear than when someone says “We have to talk.” Everyone who has ever been in a relationship knows instinctively that any conversation that starts with that phrase will never end well. It almost inevitably is followed by the classic “It’s not you, it’s me”, and…
Archives for September 2011
Ask Dr. NerdLove: Master Nerd Baiter
Hi Dr. Nerdlove, I heard about this website while listening to the podcast “The League of Extraordinary Gentlemen” and while I realize this is mostly a website to apparently help guys get girls I was hoping for some general dating advice anyway. I tend to be addicted to dating nerdy guys, I’m nerd girl and…
Rules for Wingmen
Imagine, if you will, a night out. You’re at a party; the drinks are flowing, the music is thumping, you’re chatting with your buddies and having a good time… and then you look across the room and see her. She stands out like a vision amongst her friends. She’s gorgeous, she’s funny, and she’s looking…
Online Dating Tips for Women
(Doctor’s note: a lack of free wifi and getting back into the country LATE last night meant that Monday’s article didn’t get uploaded until… well right now. Sorry guys.) I’ll be the first to admit: I write most of my articles with a male audience in mind. To start with… well, I’m a guy, and…
“I Got Her Home. Now What?” (How to Get Her Into Bed)
Maybe it’s your third date with the cute girl from the bookstore. Maybe it’s late into your first date with the woman you’ve been flirting with on OKCupid for a week. Maybe it’s a spontaneous thing – you met her at your friend’s party and there was just an instant spark. Maybe you met at…
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Ask Dr. NerdLove: It’s Just a Little Crush
Doctor, I need your help, I realize this is going to make me seem like a piece of shit, but whatever. I’ve been married for almost 2 years now, and I find myself with a crush on my coworker. I don’t know how to process this. I know workplace crushes are fairly common, but this…
