I want to talk to you a little about the idea of success and dating. There is no one definition of success when it comes to a person’s love life. We all come into this with completely different goals, goals that may well change over time. One person’s definition may be to fulfill his desire to…
Archives for November 2012
Ask Dr. NerdLove: Off The Leash
Dear Dr. NerdLove, I am a 24 year old gamer lady currently engaged to my very own gamer lad. We’ve been together for three years and decided about six months ago that marriage was in the cards. He is the sweetest, most thoughtful man I have ever dated, and I look forward to spending the…
Paging Dr. NerdLove Episode #12: What Makes A Player?
Dr. NerdLove dips into the mailbag and answers the question: what is it that drives a man into deciding to become a player? Have a dating issue that you need Dr. NerdLove’s help with? Call (512) 522-6513 to record a question or comment for the podcast. Don’t miss a single update! Be sure to subscribe…
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Understanding Women
One of the attitudes I try to combat here at Paging Dr. NerdLove is the idea that women are strange and mysterious creatures, prone to machiavellian plotting and mercurial temperaments; beings of pure emotion that defy logic who exist on a level of primal chaos. In short it’s one of the oldest Borscht-belt comedy cliches:…
Who Controls You?
I want you to think about control for a moment. Are you the sort of person who believes in fate and destiny? Or are you the sort of person who believes in consequences? Fate is an attractive thing to believe in; there’s a certain comfort to be found in believing that there is something that…