Hey Dr Nerdlove, I have a bit of a situation (who doesn’t). It involves a very good friend of mine and two girls (I’m a dude btw). I’ve expressed a very strong interest for one of the girls to my ‘good friend.’ He said he’ll help me out with the girl (wingmanning I guess) but…
Archives for December 2012
The Problem With “Nice Guys”
I always appreciate it when a topic for an article happens to fall into my lap. It saves me all of the time and anxiety that comes with writing a thrice-weekly column that usually culminates with the 3 AM insomnia-inducing panic that leads to my brain screaming “I HAVE RUN OUT OF IDEAS!” as I…
Short Cuts and Magic Bullets
I get a lot of marketing emails from various dating gurus. Call it a professional hazard; sometimes it’s because I get someone who wants me to “review” (i.e. plug) their product or service, sometimes it’s because bots harvested my email, sometimes it’s because I was interested in seeing what they had to say. Now while…
Ask Dr. NerdLove: The Brozone Layer
Doc, I’ve been reading/listening to your blog and podcast for a while now and know that you get a lot of questions about the friendzone but here I am with another question. It’s the same issue except reverse-gendered (so I guess I’m stuck in the bro-zone as opposed to the friendzone): I’ve gotten to know…
Paging Dr. NerdLove Episode #16: What Makes A Great Lover?
This week, we’re talking’ ’bout bangin’! The good Doctor answers the important questions: how do you tell someone when you have a fetish? How should an bi-curious man in an open relationship go finding new play partners? And for that matter, what does it take to be a great lover? Is it more than being…
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Keep Moving Forward
I’ve been thinking a lot about motivation lately. A lot of this has to do with the fact that in less than a week, I’m going to be running for my life in order to avoid being devoured by a swarm of flesh-eating zombies. Stick with me, I’ll be coming back to this. I bring…