Love, Sex and Dating For The Modern Nerd
The topic of rape culture and what it means to give consent has been coming up in conversations online and off lately. The discussion regarding whether a sex scene in HBO’s Girls depicted rape, sexual assault or just bad sex helped bring the topic to the forefront of the Internet. Meanwhile, conviction of two of the…
Read more about Getting A Yes (Instead of Avoiding A No) – The Standard of Enthusiastic Consent
Hi Dr NerdLove I need your help I’ve got myself in a sticky situation with a girl I’m starting to date. Well let start at the beginning. So one Day in class this really cute girl sits next to me and we start talking and hit it off. So it turns out she is being the nerd I’ve…
Read more about Ask Dr. NerdLove: Why You Gotta Make Things So Complicated?
One of the ongoing debates that crops up when it comes to dating advice for men is: “How important are men’s looks?” Just check the comments section of this blog; whenever I talk about what women find attractive in men, people will inevitably show up and insist that all of this is bullshit and that…
Read more about Leveling Up: How To Be More Attractive In 5 Easy Steps
When this goes up, I’ll be a guest at AggieCon 44 – my second con as a dating advice professional, giving a talk to attendees about dating for nerds, and it’s been giving me some time to think. I’ve been writing this blog for going on two years now. There’re nearly 400 articles, posts and occasional snarky asides…
Hi Dr. Nerdlove, I only just found your column, but I love that there’s somebody out there giving nerdy men encouraging, thoughtful dating advice that also takes a respectful look at gender relations. I relate to a lot of what you say about “leveling up,” making yourself attractive by being fun and improving your life….
Read more about Ask Dr. NerdLove: Someone Set Us Up The Bomb
The topic of masculinity is one I come back to over and over again because it’s a long-running question for many men. The search for an identity and finding one’s own definition of what it means to be a man is an important part of maturity for young men, one that has been with us through…
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