Everyone has their role-models, someone who represents the epitome of “cool” – that ineffable mix of suave sophistication, laid back attitude and unflappable confidence that we all admire. Whether it’s George Clooney or Idris Elba, Ryan Gosling’s nameless Driver or James Bond, there’s always that one person who represents everything we wish we could be. These are…
Archives for September 2013
Instant Charisma
One of the oldest questions that everybody in the self-help/relationship advice circuit gets is “I like this person, how do I get her to like me?” Now granted, there are a myriad number of answers ranging from the obvious – “try using your wit and charm” – to the arcane – “Take her through the…
Ask Dr. NerdLove: Ludicrous Speed!
Hi Doc, I’m not very good at cutting to the chase, but I’ll make my best effort. I’m sailing some weird waters, making a connection with someone I met through a dating website. She’s trans. That’s not really the problem, but it complicates the problem. I live with my parents. I dated a disaster a…
How To Get Better at Dating… Quickly
Improving my dating life was a long, hard slog. Like most of you, I had more than my share of issues to get over – I had to let go of my Nice Guy tendencies and some deep-seated problems with being willing to accept that women were sexual beings. I also had to toss out 90% of…
The 5 Most Common Self-Limiting Beliefs in Men (And What To Do About Them)
You are your own worst enemy. I realize that this is a cliche that’s passed around in self-help circles like a joint at a midnight screening of Dark Side of the Rainbow, but all too often we are the agents of our own misery… and we fight to stay that way. It’s a form of confirmation…
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Ask Dr. NerdLove: You Make Me Cool
Hey Dr. Nerdlove- So a female in college, and have been dating “D” for a year now; our first anniversary was actually on Sunday. He’s a pretty cool guy, and we obviously get along pretty well, but there is a definite problem in our sex life. I’m basically always horny, but three times out of…
