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Archives for October 2014

What Couples Can Learn From Gomez and Morticia Addams

Oct 31, 2014

I’m not a fan of love stories. I realize this sounds odd coming from someone who teaches people how make others fall in love with them, but stay with me for a moment here. The most famous, beloved love stories of all time all end in the death of one or both of the lovers….

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Wednesday Open Thread – This Is Halloween Edition

Oct 29, 2014

It’s Wednesday, which means it’s time for the open thread. Today’s suggested topic: HALLOWEEN. So let’s talk about favorite Halloween memories, specials, activities and controversies. Are “Slutty $TYPE” costumes a pox on humanity or a way for people to express their sexuality? Do you go to haunted houses and do you prefer psychological horror or…

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What Do Your Secret Sexual Desires Say About You?

Oct 27, 2014

<This post originally appeared on Thought Catalog> “Tell me how you want to fuck and I’ll tell you who you are.” There’s a belief that, in order to be our true selves, we have to be exactly that person at every level. Consistency above all else must be maintained, lest we prove ourselves to be hypocrites…

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What We Talk About When We Talk About GamerGate

Oct 24, 2014

Back in August, I wrote about the ongoing harassment against Zoe Quinn and Anita Sarkeesian, the then-latest attempts by the would-be gatekeepers of gaming culture trying to evict women from their formerly ((Except it never has been…)) exclusive clubhouse. While it’s (depressingly) common to see outbursts like this bubble up from the underside of the…

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Wednesday Open Thread: Your Crazy Fan Theories

Oct 22, 2014

It’s Wednesday, which means it’s time for the weekly open thread – the day when the readers take over the comments section to talk about anything and everything. Today’s suggested topic: crazy fan theories. Sure, you could go with what’s just written on the page or shows up on the screen, but it’s the crazy…

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Ask Dr. NerdLove: Did I Break Bro Code?

Oct 20, 2014

Dear Doc, I have a question about “cock blocking” and the sketchy at best concept of the “bro code”. Okay. So I’m on my way to chill at my friend’s house, and he tells me he has a girl over so I ask him if he wants alone time or whatever. He tells me it’s…

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