Hey Dr. NerdLove, I keep getting to the same problem very quickly with every guy. As I fear it is kind of a circle I’m not sure where to begin. I do not feel like I need much sex (but probably I’m mistaken, you’ll see later on). Penetration is “bearable” at the best times, but…
Archives for January 2015
Wednesday Open Thread: Perfect Date Edition
It’s Wednesday which means it’s time for the Doc to slip out and meet his dealer to supply his 4-color addiction while the NerdLove interns and residents take over the comments section. This week’s suggested topic: We all know about the cliche dinner and a movie date and the coffee interview date. But what would…
Nerds and Male Privilege – Nerds Behaving Badly
We’re two weeks into the new year and it seems to me like the perfect time to talk about an old topic: nerds and male privilege. Last week I talked about MIT Professor Scott Aaronson’s emotionally vulnerable comment about being terrified of women growing up. While this was an excellent example of the problematic Nice Guy attitude, there…
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Ask Dr. NerdLove: Help We Have TOO MUCH Sex
Dr. NerdLove, I’ve managed to get myself into a difficult situation and could use some advice on how to deal with it. I recently found your site and have been impressed with the no-nonsense advice you give and your mission to make men better at dating. After all, what I’m after advice on is how…
Wednesday Open Thread: Souvenir Edition
Welcome to the weekly open thread, where the NerdLove internists and residents get to take over the comment sections for their own nefarious purposes. The latest book in the Magic Ex Libris series by Jim C. Hines has been released and I’m enjoying the hell out of it. So this week the suggested topic: what is…
What’s Really Wrong With Nice Guys – Entitlement, Nerds and Neanderthals
One thing you learn quickly in the dating advice business: some topics are more or less evergreen. And with the recent explosion on social media, it’s a good time to talk about one of my favorite topics: Nice Guys. After all, what better way could we ring in a new year than by looking at…
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