Dear Dr. NerdLove: I would like to get some advice on the following topic: pornography in a relationship.
I’ve been in a 1 year relationship, I told him I have seen porn plenty of times before, but I don’t agree with the use of porn in a monogamous relationship. I live with him and I’m always available to take care of his sexual needs. I never say no to sex or any fantasies he might want to try. I told him about my view on porn in a relationship and he said he would stop, I later found it he hadn’t..of course..a lie and I freaked out. He said he did not realize it was that big of a deal and then assured me he actually wouldn’t watch it again. As a result, I have a hard time believing him. I still think he’ll do it once in a while if I’m not around. I’m not sure where to go from here, if I can let go of this issue, if there is a guy out there who would actually stop watching porn, or if I have to give up my ideals because of the way this society is set.
No Porn Please