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Archives for September 2015

Wednesday Open Thread: Fantastic Fest Edition

Sep 30, 2015

It’s Wednesday, which means it’s time for the Doc to lock his office and sneak off for a special screening of Takashi Miike’s “Yakuza Apocalypse”. Meanwhile, the NerdLove interns and residents take over the comments section for their own nefarious purposes! This week’s suggested topic: it’s Fantastic Fest, the world’s largest genre film-fest with movies…

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Why You Should Fake It ‘Til You Make It

Sep 28, 2015

Last week I told you that authenticity was important. This week, I’m going to tell you why it’s good to lie. And no, this isn’t a contradiction in terms. Stick with me here, this will all make sense in a second. One of the things I regularly advocate, especially when you’re just starting to work…

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Get out of the Friend Zone (Without Losing Your Friend)

How To Get Out Of The Friend Zone (Without Losing Your Friend)

Sep 25, 2015

Normally, on Fridays I like to answer readers’ dating questions. However, occasionally I’ll receive a question that merits a full article, something that has wider interest than the specific circumstances of the question. This week, we have just such a question. And it involves The Friend Zone ((Standard disclaimer: there is no friend-zone, there are…

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Wednesday Open Thread: What’cha Watching? Edition

Sep 23, 2015

It’s Wednesday, which means it’s time for the Doc to lock himself in his office to catch up on his Netflix queue. Meanwhile, the NerdLove interns and residents take over the comments section for their own nefarious purposes! This week’s suggested topic: It’s all about the TV. The Emmy’s just happened and the new fall…

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The Value of Authenticity

Sep 21, 2015

Let’s talk a little bit about authenticity and being authentic. It makes a lovely buzzword, doesn’t it? You hear about authenticity as a marker of quality or sincerity, an antidote to artificiality. We talk about valuing authenticity in our lives, but the way we live is almost always anything but. We live in a world…

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Ask Dr. NerdLove: Am I Too Vanilla?

Sep 18, 2015

Dear Dr. NerdLove, Greetings. I’m a 24 year old male from an expat family who moved to the Bay Area about three years ago from SE Asia and am now attending college as an undergrad. American dating has mostly been an exercise in frustration for me, with success sprinkled here and there in the form…

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