Not everybody’s built for meeting women at bars and clubs. But when you see story after story about douchebags harassing women in the street and all the times when you shouldn’t approach women, trying meeting women anywhere else can feel like you’re tap-dancing through a minefield. There’s the understandable desire to not be a creeper on top of the anxiety that comes with approaching a relative stranger. Fear of rejection, fear of being misunderstood, fear of making a fool out of yourself, feeling like everybody’s watching you – it’s enough to scare almost anyone off.
But it doesn’t have to be that way. You can meet amazing women during the day almost anywhere. You just need to learn how to recognize when women are open to – or would welcome – meeting somebody and when they’re not. Here’s how you can be that cool guy she happened to meet during the day instead of just another jerk.