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Archives for February 2016

Nerd Role Models: Captain America and Non-Toxic Masculinity

Feb 29, 2016

This week, we’re returning to the topic of masculinity and how to be a good man in an era when what it means to be a man is changing. And to look at modern masculinity, we’re going to take a look at a character from the past. A man out of time, even; dropped from his time…

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Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Much Should I Change?

Feb 26, 2016

Hey Doc, I was hoping you could maybe lend some insight on. I know your specialty isn’t women, but you’re so sex positive and respectful. I don’t know you personally, but you make me feel really comfortable and like I won’t be judged for what I express. A lot of your pieces, especially the ones on…

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Wednesday Open Thread: Cosplay Edition

Feb 24, 2016

It’s Wednesday, which means it’s time for the Doc to lock up the office and head out to meet up with his friends in the Hong Kong Cavaliers. Meanwhile, the NerdLove interns and residents take over the comments section for their own nefarious purposes! This week’s suggested topic: In Monday’s column, I talked about how…

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Geek Behaviors That Drive Women Away

Feb 22, 2016

Before I get into this, I want to address the title of today’s column which implies that geekdom is inherently male. That’s actually a deliberate choice, because while we’ve made serious improvements in increasing diversity over the years, the geek community tends to still conduct itself like it’s a men’s locker room. The problem is simple….

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Ask Dr. NerdLove: My Friend’s Giving Me The Cold Shoulder

Feb 19, 2016

Doc, Last fall I moved across country for school. I met a girl in my class and we were getting along fairly well. We would often talk during class and occasionally text outside of class. Christmas break came and we both went off to be with our families. During my travels home I saw something…

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Wednesday Open Thread: Not-Quite Love Songs Edition

Feb 17, 2016

It’s Wednesday, which means it’s time for the Doc to throw on his Chucks and ratty jeans and head off to the Def Leppard concert. Meanwhile, the NerdLove interns and residents take over the comments section for their own nefarious purposes. This week’s suggested topic: Ever listen to a song that seems cute and sweet…

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