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Archives for March 2016

Wednesday Open Thread: Secret Identity Edition

Mar 30, 2016

It’s Wednesday, which means it’s time for the Doc to lock his office and change out of his scrubs into his supersuit in order to defend Hell’s Kitchen with his Anti-Gentrification Fists of JUSTICE. Meanwhile the NerdLove interns and residents take over the comments section for their own nefarious purposes! This week’s suggested topic: well,…

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How to Handle Being “Just Friends”

Mar 28, 2016

One of the biggest myths in dating – and one I can’t stand – is the idea that men and women can’t be just friends. In its own way, it’s perversely fascinating because it’s very much a Straight People Problem. The idea that sex will inevitably come between two people doesn’t seem to be an…

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Ask Dr. NerdLove: What’s Wrong With My Libido?

Mar 25, 2016

Dear Dr. NerdLove – My problem is pretty straightforward: I’ve lost interest in sex with my wife; really, with anyone. I still can get turned on by some porn and masturbate, so the problem isn’t the plumbing (though as I’ve gotten older — I’m 40 — my erection has become less reliable and I do…

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Wednesday Open Thread: Spring GIF Party!

Mar 23, 2016

It’s Wednesday, which means it’s time for the Doc to sneak out of his office and take fiery revenge on the trees that are currently desecrating his sinuses. Meanwhile, the NerdLove interns and residents take over the comments section for their own nefarious purposes! This week’s suggested topic: Sunday was officially the first day of Spring….

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Healing After A Heartbreak

Mar 21, 2016

Occasionally the universe (also known as “my Facebook feed”) will give me things to be annoyed about, which I appreciate because I could always use new topics. The latest example was a post from Elite Daily: “How He Became Broken: 3 Ways Men Never Fully Recover From Heartbreak”, which tops my list of “I don’t…

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Ask Dr. NerdLove: What’s Wrong With Being Desperate?

Mar 18, 2016

Hi Doc, I need some help on this subject, as its been tormenting me for years upon years and I cant get out of it. Why does desperation turn away women from men? It doesn’t make sense, especially evolutionary speaking. We are biologically programmed to want sex, so if someone doesn’t get it for a long time,…

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