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Archives for July 2016

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Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Can I Explain My Kink?

Jul 29, 2016

Hello, Doc, So, I think I have a problem that quite a few people also experience–dealing with kink, especially one that’s rare, particularly strange by “normal” standards, or one that many people find outright disgusting. In my case, I’m a vorarephiliac. It’s not something I’m particularly proud of, and I don’t think any amount of…

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Wednesday Open Thread: The Belated Edition

Jul 28, 2016

It’s Thursday, which means the Doc just woke up from the coma he’d fallen into after saving the world (again) on Tuesday. Meanwhile the NerdLove interns and residents take over the comments section for their own nefarious purposes. This week’s suggested topic: Stranger Things. Just… dude. Stranger Things. Hitting the perfect mix of 80s homage…

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How To Read Body Language

Jul 25, 2016

Being able to read body language is a powerful tool to have in your social toolbox. After all, meeting people can be pants-shittingly intimidating at times. You want them to like you. Sometimes you want them to like you like you. You don’t want to end up annoying them, creeping them out or otherwise fucking up…

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Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Change My Feelings?

Jul 22, 2016

Hey Dr. NerdLove, I’m writing to you anyways because I really need your help. I’m actually pretty ashamed of my problems too. I despise the way I think and feel, yet no matter how hard I try to repress them, they just keep resurfacing. I feel like I have to repress them because if I…

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Wednesday Open Thread: Summer Memories EditionT

Jul 20, 2016

It’s Wednesday, which means it’s time for the Doc to wax his board and head out to catch some waves. Meanwhile, the NerdLove interns and residents take over the comments section for their own nefarious purposes! This week’s suggested topic: Summer changes as you get older. What starts off as a magical time full of…

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Eliminating Neediness

Jul 18, 2016

Neediness and clinginess are among the most unattractive traits a person can have. We have an almost instinctive repulsion to needy behavior. Consider the “ha-ha-but-no-seriously” humor of the “overly attached girlfriend” meme. For all the unpleasant wink-wink-nudge-nudge “women are so crazy” implications of the meme, the fear of getting caught up with a needy partner…

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