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Archives for September 2016

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Ask Dr. NerdLove: Is My Girlfriend Cheating On Me?

Sep 30, 2016

Hi there Doc. I’ve been in a steady, loving and deeply fulfilling relationship with my girlfriend for 10 months. Initially, I had some minor trust issues stemming from…details in her background that didn’t quite match up (please keep in mind that I was raised as a man in a deeply chauvinistic and misogynistic latin american society, it…

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Wednesday Open Thread: Most Important Hero Edition

Sep 28, 2016

It’s Wednesday, which means it’s time for the Doc to don the cape and cowl and answer the Nerd Signal shining in the sky. Meanwhile the NerdLove interns and residents take over the comments section for their own nefarious purposes! This week’s suggested topic: Luke Cage drops into Netflix this Friday and all signs point…

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Ask Dr. NerdLove: Does Money Ruin Everything?

Sep 23, 2016

Hey Doc, I was trying to dig through your archive but I didn’t find anything on dating with a class disparity. A bit of context, up until the last few months I had all but resigned myself to the gauntlet of dating apps and coffee dates that go next to no where. Nevertheless being the…

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Wednesday Open Thread: Cosplay Appreciation Edition

Sep 21, 2016

It’s Wednesday, which means it’s time for the Doc to finish working on his functioning EVA-01 outfit for Halloween. Meanwhile, the NerdLove interns and residents take over the comments section for their own nefarious purposes! This week’s suggested topic: Halloween is coming! In, like, a month! That means it’s time to be putting some serious…

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Being A “Nice Guy” Isn’t Good Enough

Sep 19, 2016

Are you a nice guy? This may be part of what holds you back in dating. See, there’s a problem inherent with being nice (as opposed to being a Nice Guy): it’s unsexy.The “nice guy”  is pleasant and safe… and bland. Whenever someone is describing their partner and comes out with “he’s a nice guy and…”…

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Ask Dr. NerdLove: Did I Lose A Friend To My Marriage?

Sep 16, 2016

Dear Doctor Nerdlove, I’m a 26 year old man in an open marriage that’s recently become long distance. This letter isn’t about my relationship with my wife; going long distance has been stressful and problematic but we’re finding ways to cope. There’s also a clear timetable for us to return to co-habitation. Instead, this is…

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