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Archives for January 2017

Level Up: 5 Different Ways To Boost Your Charisma

Jan 30, 2017

For the latest installment of the new Level Up series, I want to talk to you about how to be more charismatic. Charisma is an important part of being a more desirable, datable person. Charisma is the difference between someone that people like to spend time with and the people who may be well liked……

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Ask Dr. NerdLove: Are We Dating Or Not?

Jan 27, 2017

Hello Dr. Nerdlove I am currently in a friends with benefits situation with a girl I met on Tinder. I have been single for about 5 years now and this is my second try at the friends with benefits situation. I have to say, so far, I don’t think I’m wired to be in this…

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Paging Dr. NerdLove Minisode #14 – The Rules of Hook Ups

Jan 26, 2017

It doesn’t matter whether this is a one-time fling or the start of a new stage in your relationship; the first time you hook up with someone can be exciting… and it can be stressful as hell. After all, it’s one of those times when there are any number of ways that things can go wrong…

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Wednesday Open Thread: Your Crazy Dating Stories

Jan 25, 2017

It’s Wednesday, which means it’s time for the Doc to slip off to Transylvania Polygnostic to start his lecture circuit. Meanwhile, the NerdLove interns and residents take over the comments section for their own nefarious purposes! This week’s suggested topic: Sometimes dating can be sublime. Other times, it can be absurd. Let’s hear about the…

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Can Consent Be Sexy?

Jan 23, 2017

“I think it’s ridiculous to ask your sexual partner for consent every 6 seconds.” I had this discussion thread on Twitter forwarded to me recently. It’s part and parcel of what happens whenever the idea of consent is brought up on social media. Whenever we talk about the concept of enthusiastic consent – that is,…

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Post Mortem: When “Being Nice” Becomes A “Nice Guy”

Jan 20, 2017

Normally on Fridays, I run readers questions for Ask Dr. NerdLove. On occasion, however, I’ll get a letter that necessitates going into greater depth than the usual submission. Sometimes the answer is more complex or requires a deeper dive into the situation. Sometimes the only way to see where things went wrong is to grab…

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