One of the hardest things for many men to do is to simply talk to attractive women. It’s hard enough simply making that first approach, but once you get there, what the hell do you say? Worse, you have your opener planned out but for some reason, there’s a disconnect between your brain and your mouth. You know…
Archives for February 2017
Ask Dr. NerdLove: Who’s Abusing Who?
Hi Doc, I would like to ask your opinion on my situation in my relationship. My girlfriend and I have been together for almost 7 years, and everything was great at first until she started having troubles at home. I tried to help her but she refused help from me, saying that she could take care…
Paging Dr. NerdLove Minisode #18 – How Much Should You Change?
One of the most common questions I get when it comes to self-improvement is: “how much should I change?” Or, more accurately: the actual, underlying question is “why should I change at all?” When we’ve heard “just be yourself” over and over again, at what point does changing go from being fickle crowd-pleasing to genuine improvement and…
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Wednesday Open Thread: Your Childhood Beliefs Edition
It’s Wednesday, which means it’s time for the Doc to go hunting boogiemen. Meanwhile, the NerdLove interns and residents take over the comments section for their own nefarious purposes! This week’s suggested topic: Every kid had their weird, idiosyncratic beliefs. Whether it was the classic “monsters under the bed” or “step on a crack” to…
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Level Up: Getting Fit (for The First Time)
Whenever guys talk about being more attractive, they talk a lot about getting fit as though it were the keys to the kingdom. Get fit, get those six-pack abs, those striated muscles that look like shredded wheat and women will beat a path to your pants. And to be sure: one of the key parts…
Ask The Necromancer: Dark Deeds Done Dirt Cheap
Hey everyone, This week, we’re doing things a little differently. I’m traveling, which means I needed someone to fill in while I was out of town. But I also wanted to make things interesting. So instead of the typical guest advisor, I went somewhat… far afield. This week, we have questions from the noted master…
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