Hey Doc. I’ve been reading your articles a lot lately and they are so reasonable that I thought to myself that maybe you could put some reason in my head as well. You see, to be really short, I met a perfect girl about a year and a half ago, or so I thought. She…
Archives for March 2017
Paging Dr. NerdLove Episode #22 – Behaviors That Kill Attraction
This week, we’re going to be talking about an issue a lot of men letting their behavior ruin any attraction they’ve built up with women. This is something I see happen all the times when guys have started to get better with women and social skills – they have a decent or even strong start…
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Find Your Community
I have a question for you: where is your community? Where do you find your crowd, your squad, your team? Who do you look to to feel part of something greater than yourself? Who do you have in your life who lifts you up when you’re down? Where do you feel the most connected to…
Ask Dr. NerdLove: Was I The Bad Guy?
Hello Doc! I wanted to ask if you could help me out with something. This is my first time writing to you, although sadly this letter is probably a few years too late. I have done some terrible things. Back in October 2015, I was talking to a girl on Twitter, she is the same…
Paging Dr. NerdLove Minsiode #21 – How To Save Your Relationship
Pop culture loves to talk about the early days of a relationship… but is often mum about what happens after the couple gets together. As a result, we have thousands of models of how love starts, but very little for how to keep it going. Every relationship eventually leaves the honeymoon period, and that’s when the work…
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What Bad Boys Know That Nice Guys Don’t
One of the more tedious ideas in dating advice is the idea of “nice guys finish last” and “girls love bad boys”. It’s a truism that never seems to fully go away – the idea that women love assholes and will pick them over the self-described “nice guy”. The idea of assholes and bad boys…
