There’s a very common issue I see among guys who’re looking for a girlfriend: they’re just not ready for one yet. Many guys go full-tilt boogie into finding themselves a girlfriend as soon as possible without having laid the emotional groundwork. As a result, they don’t find themselves a relationship so much as a girlfriend-shaped disaster of Hindenburg proportions.
It’s very easy to get caught up in the quest to get a relationship – whether something semi-casual or completely serious – without recognizing that you might not be ready for it yet. Having developed the skills to attract a girlfriend without the emotional maturity or steadfastness to maintain a relationship is a recipe for misery. So, before you sabotage your own progress, I want you to ask yourself a series of questions, and answer as honestly as you can.