Hey, Doc. About 4 years ago i met this amazing woman in the gym we were both attending in Paris. She was extremely kind, empathic, caring and everything one hopes to find in a S.O. We started chatting and within a month we were dating. I was still a virgin when i met her (aged…
Archives for December 2017
Post Mortem – Will We Ever Be More Than Friends?
On occasion, I’ll get a request for advice on a situation that’s more layered and complex than a typical Ask Dr. NerdLove question. These questions typically need a deeper dive into just what went wrong – a dating Post-Mortem if you will. So come up to the lab and see what’s on the slab. It’s…
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Ask Dr. NerdLove: What Are The Rules Of Threesomes?
Hi Dr. NerdLove, Thanks for existing. My bf and I had a threesome with a woman and it was good for our first time. I wasn’t attracted to her, but I knew he was and I wanted to give us the experience since we’d been fantasizing and talking about it for two years. So the…
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Paging Dr. NerdLove Episode #59: How To Survive A Party
How do you make it through a party when you don’t know anyone? Since this is the last episode for 2017, I’ve decided that instead of answering one person’s questions, I’m answering several at once. After all, we’re heading straight into the heart of the holiday party season and a lot of you have many,…
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The Difference Between Flirting and Harassment
As the revelations of sexual harassment, abusers and general shitbags rolls on, so to does the inevitable pushback to the #metoo movement. And while there have always been people who insist that we’re creating a culture where any sort of flirting might be mistaken for harassment and an innocent gesture might end a well-meaning man’s…
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Ask Dr. NerdLove: Am I Too “Nice” For Casual Sex?
Dear Dr NerdLove, I’m a mid-20s male and to be honest, I’m completely lost when it comes to dating these days and I always feel like I’m one step behind everyone else (it probably doesn’t help that I lost my virginity late to my friend, who basically took pity on me). I was brought up…
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