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Archives for August 2019

Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Stop Letting Virginity Define Me?

Aug 30, 2019

Hey doc, I’m 23 years old, a guy, and I still haven’t lost my virginity yet, and while I’ve seen some of your stuff on that matter, I still feel like time is “running out” for me, and I’m worried about how others see me, and moreover how I see myself for it. In summary,…

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Episode #121 – These 5 Things Make You Irresistible To Women

Aug 28, 2019

What does it take to be someone that women want to date? It’s not about looks,  status or money. It’s about understanding the secret behind why we fall in love and with whom. Show Highlights: Why guys focus on surface issues… and miss the most important parts of attraction Why women will reject you BEFORE getting…

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Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Make Actual Friends?

Aug 26, 2019

Hey Doc. Short version of background: I was a lonely kid. I remember reading a story in 5th grade that described a friend as someone who you told your deepest secrets to, and felt mystified enough by that to mention it in this letter two decades later. Fell into some social circles by middle and…

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Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Stop Being Too Intimidating To Date?

Aug 23, 2019

Dear Dr. NerdLove: I’m a single 35F cis/straight who’s nearly at the end of my rope with dating. I’d like to think I’m a halfway decent catch- good family, reasonably cute, well educated, no criminal record, etc. The problem is I think maybe I’m intimidating to guys? I’m a physician and am used to making…

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Ask Dr. NerdLove: Why Does Sex Ruin My Relationships?

Aug 19, 2019

Hi Doc, My question is about forming lasting relationships rather than any initial problems meeting girls. I was seeing this girl recently and initially things went really well – I felt there was a lot of chemistry and compatibility and we got physical very quickly. We had sex a couple of times and it seemed…

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Ask Dr. NerdLove: What Does “Not Ready For A Relationship” REALLY Mean?

Aug 16, 2019

Dear Dr. NerdLove, I’ve been listening and reading your works for a while now, and I have found your insights and advice really helpful —and your obvert feminism and repudiation of pseudoscience wonderfully refreshing, considering what the standards of the industry sometimes seem to be. I am a 27 year-old straight male that, one year…

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