Dear Doc, I’m about to turn 35, and find myself single after 12 years of being in a relationship. My ex and I met in college on a study abroad, and were friends (with benefits) for many months before we became exclusive. That friendship developed, evolved, and after six years of dating (four living together)…
Archives for January 2020
Episode #132 — The Secret To Being Successful With Women
Here’s something nobody will tell you about being successful with women: nobody is “naturally” good with women. Nobody is born with an instinctual ability to get dates. Everyone — people who seem to be naturally gifted and people who learned later in life — all developed their skills the same way. That’s why all the…
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How Do I Tell Someone She’s My Backup Girlfriend?
Hey Dr. NerdLove, First of all, you’ve written amazing articles on your website. Because if you, I’ve had a lot more dating success. Keep up the great work. My question is very “First world problem”. I’ve been dating a particular woman on and off (let’s call her H) during the last year. Meanwhile, I’ve gone…
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He’s Tired of One Night Stands. How Does He Start Finding Relationships?
Dear Dr. NerdLove: 3 and a half years ago, I used to suck at relationships. I was not the nicest person to be around, being selfish, entitled, needy… the whole package. My relationships, if any, never lasted more than 3 months and almost always ended up in the other person ghosting me, and since I…
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ASK DR. NERDLOVE: How Do You Keep The Spark In Your Relationship?
I’m answering your most important dating questions! If you have a question about love, sex or dating, then be sure to leave a comment. Maybe the next question I answer will be yours! This week: How do you keep your relationship from fading into boredom? What’s the secret to keeping the spark making your long-term…
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Her Best Friend Is Starting to Become an Incel. What Can She Do?
I’m seeking some advise regarding a good friend of mine who I’m worried about. Some background detail: I’m a woman in my mid 20’s, married. My friend, “Tom”, is a man in his mid 20’s who has serious issues with women. Tom and I grew up together. Now, Tom has never been the best at…
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