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Archives for April 2020

Episode #141 — How To Get Your Ex Back… The RIGHT Way

Apr 29, 2020

Last time, we talked about the recent trend of folks reaching out to their exes, why it’s happening so frequently and why it can be comforting to try to rekindle an old relationship. But it’s far too easy to fall back to old patterns and old routines with your ex, which means you’re going to…

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How Do I Tell My Husband I Need A Kinkier Sex Life?

Apr 27, 2020

Dear Dr. NerdLove, I’ve been married to a wonderful man for 5 years. I grew up in a strict religion and felt sexually repressed for most of my life. Then I met a man several years my junior who loved me and converted for me to marry me. We’ve gone through a lot together, a…

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How Do I Date More Than One Woman At A Time?

Apr 24, 2020

Hi doc, I tend to meet women on Tinder and date a couple at a time. Five years ago, I did this because while I could be charming for a date or two, soon enough the realities of my then pathetic life would shine through. The reaction was girls tended to like me less the…

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Episode #140 — Should You Get Back Together With Your Ex?

Apr 22, 2020

With the stress and the chaos of the COVID-19 pandemic, more and more people are reaching out to their exes for comfort, for connection and something more. But is it ever a good idea to get back with your ex? If you’re thinking of trying to get your ex back — or reaching out to…

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How Do I Tell My Dates I Can’t Have Sex… Ever?

Apr 20, 2020

I am not sure how to address this problem and I am hoping that you can offer guidance. I am a single retired male in my 60s. I live alone and have never been married. I would like to date and I would like to be in a relationship. However, sexually ….. I am not able….

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How Do I Ask My Girlfriend if She Was Abused?

Apr 17, 2020

Doctors’ Note: Today’s column includes a discussion of familial sexual abuse. Hi Doc, I have a situation that I’m not quite sure how to handle. TL;DR: There’s a pretty heavy subject I am contemplating raising with my partner but I’m not sure how to go about it. To explain, I (he/him) have been seeing my…

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