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Archives for September 2020

What “Forged in Fire” Can Teach Us About Manhood

Sep 30, 2020

I’m a big believer in the idea that your attitude shapes your life and the world around you. Perception is, in a very real way, the filter through which we interact with the world, and we can choose how to perceive it. Choose the right outlook and the right beliefs and the world will provide you…

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How Do We Tell Our Families We’re Polyamorous?

Sep 28, 2020

Hi Doc – My wife and I have been together for 11 years and have 3 great kids. About three years ago my wife’s friend moved in during a tough spot and never left – we have been a ‘throuple’ ever since and she gave birth about a year ago. After our daughter was born…

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How Do I get Over Being Used?

Sep 25, 2020

Hey Doc, So basically I recently “broke up” with this girl. The reason I’m phrasing it like that is because we only dated for like a month. During the time I was dating her, I realized she had an abusive ex who gaslit her, was emotionally negligent and also implicitly fat shamed her by joking…

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Episode #151 — The 5 Things You Need to Know To About Dating

Sep 23, 2020

The #1 reason why so many men struggle with dating is very simple: they don’t know what it takes to be successful with women. Attraction isn’t a checklist; having all the right “stats” isn’t going to magically make you attractive to women. Learning to succeed with women isn’t about having the right car or the…

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I Took The Red Pill. Why Am I Still Not Happy?

Sep 21, 2020

Hi, I’m gonna keep my name private but I truly hope that you are having a great day and I hope your writing has brought fulfilment to your life as well as in the lives of your readers. With that said I wanted to ask you a question, I essentially want to know if you’re…

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How Do I Break Up With Someone… Safely?

Sep 18, 2020

Doctor’s Note: today’s letter involves discussion of suicide and suicidal ideation. Hello Doc. I apologize in advance for how dark this is. I’ve been in a long-distance relationship (my first real relationship) with someone for two and a half years. They (non-binary) have a ton of issues, in terms of mental health and personal baggage,…

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