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Archives for October 2020

Why Does My Boyfriend Want to Keep Us A Secret?

Oct 30, 2020

Hi Dr. NerdLove, Found you years ago back when I was a high school student and here I am now writing to you as a college student. Here’s a backstory leading up to my current situation, which all started back in January this year. I transferred to an out-of-state university as a junior during the…

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I Was Abused. How Do I Keep My Trauma Out of My Dating Life?

Oct 28, 2020

Dear Dr. NerdLove: I’ve been thinking about an idea that appeals to me, and wondering if there are some deeper lessons that can be learned from it. I would appreciate a qualified second opinion on the matter, and so I would like to hear your advice, if that is alright. Background details (to let you…

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I Want A Relationship. So Why Don’t They Make Me Happy?

Oct 26, 2020

Dear Doctor, Thanks for all the work you do! I have a question I’ve been pondering for a while now, and it is how on earth I figure out what I want. Because I can’t. And I have been trying very, very hard. Professionally I’m all set (in my very early 30s, got all the…

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The Trouble With Defending Jeffrey Toobin

Oct 23, 2020

Every once in a while, the universe throws a curveball at us. We think that — even allowing for the stress of a global pandemic, a presidential election that seems to be the last stand between democracy and fascism, right-wing and white supremacist terrorist groups threatening violence on election night and politicians openly embracing gonzo…

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Episode #153 — The Secret to Stronger, Healthier Relationships

Oct 21, 2020

Have you struggled with relationships that were bad for you? Maybe you’ve been in a toxic relationship with somebody who was always manipulating you into ways of getting what they wanted, leaving you feeling like a doormat. Maybe you had friends who treated you badly or would pressure you into going along with jokes at…

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How Can I Learn To Avoid Being A Victim?

Oct 19, 2020

Dear Dr. NerdLove: I think I’ve come to the denouement of my real problem, but as it was a painful process and is still ongoing, I’d like to relate my story and see if you have any good advice for moving forward. I cut ties with a toxic partner about a week ago. I think…

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