Hey Dr. NerdLove, Longtime reader. I absolutely love your advice. Thank you for everything you’ve done for people, including myself. I’ve never written in but your articles have helped me through a lot. But now I need something more specific. I don’t think I’ve seen this yet. Here we go. I am a 29 year…
Archives for December 2020
Are Looks REALLY All That Matter In Dating?
Hello, I’m a 17-year-old boy in Korea and my life’s been great, I have many friends, my grades are super good, and I have passion and confidence. But nowadays I’ve been thinking about love and I have some questions. You see, I had a crush whom is my close friend. Our personality matched so much…
This Is What Toxic Relationships Look Like (Or: The Love Con of Martin Shkreli)
There’s a joke on Twitter — in that “ha ha but no, seriously” sense — that goes “every day one person becomes the main character on the Internet. Your goal is to avoid being that person.” On December 20, 2020, when Elle published their long-form piece, “The Journalist and The Pharma Bro“, Christie Smythe became…
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Why Won’t My Husband Treat His Mental Illness?
Hello Dr. Nerdlove, I first want to express my appreciation for the work you do in helping people become their best versions of themselves. I saw one of your YouTube videos explaining your journey with diagnosis and treatment of ADHD, so I’m hoping you can give me some insight into what my husband is going…
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I’m Moving Overseas for Love. Am I Making A Huge Mistake?
Dear Dr. NerdLove: I am contemplating a big move and looking for a distanced opinion. A few years ago, I met Awesome Guy at a work event. We hit it off, had a lot in common, and amazing chemistry. We both travel a lot for work and actually live in separate countries. Neither of us…
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How Can I AVOID Having A Relationship Like My Parents’?
Hello Doctor, I have been an avid reader of your blog for a few years and have finally mustered the courage to ask for advice. I really enjoy the laidback approach to answering some really serious matters, and the fact that you provide pictures of cute animals when things get really serious or disgusting. And…
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