Hey Doc, To start with thanks for all the work you do, the advice you give is always appreciated! I would love to get your thoughts on something that’s been bothering me for awhile. I was a virgin through most of my 20’s, until I was in a long term relationship with a great woman….
Archives for December 2020
Episode #156 — This is Why Dating Sucks for Men (And How To Fix It)
Let’s be honest: dating can be a trial. For a lot of men, dating isn’t something you enjoy, it’s something you endure. From trying to meet women, to getting a number, to actually getting women out on a date… it’s more like pulling teeth than meeting a potential partner. Today, I want to give you…
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How Do I Stop Leading People On?
Dear Dr. NerdLove, This is a pretty minor problem compared to a lot of the ones that you deal with, but I’ve really valued your advice over the years, so I thought I’d send it in anyway. I was very nervous and awkward as a teenager, but I have spent the last decade working actively…
Is My Partner Just Settling For Me?
Dear Dr. NerdLove: So, first things first: my partner (38NB, they/them) and I (28F) both have histories of abusive relationships. Their most recent partner before they met me was physically, sexually, and emotionally violent towards them; I had gotten out of a sexually predatory and abusive relationship with a much older man. We both understand…