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Archives for January 2021

How Do I Tell My Girlfriend I’m Ready To Try Her Kink?

Jan 29, 2021

Doctor’s Note: today’s column deals with talk of sexual assault in the context of people pretending to not consent to sexual activities. What’s up, Doc? I’m a 25 year old male, and I’m dating a 24 year old woman, we’ve been together about two months so far, and it’s mostly been very positive. We have…

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What Nobody Tells You About Grieving

Jan 27, 2021

(Doctor’s Note: This was originally published on March 13, 2017) You’d be surprised how bored you can get waiting for someone to die. If you’ve been lucky, this sounds either horrific or a pretty good way to start a book. On the other hand, if you’ve dealt with an impending death in the family, it…

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Do I Have A Type, or Do I Have A Fetish?

Jan 25, 2021

Hey Doc, I need an honest opinion from you on something that I feel shame and guilt, after I give some more details: am I fetishizing women? I seem to be only attracted to very curvy women with wide hips, thick legs, “pawgs,” “bbws,” etc. I’ve dated a variety of body types throughout my twenties…

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How Do I Get Over My Fear of Being Rejected?

Jan 22, 2021

Dear Doctor NerdLove, First of all, thank you for your good work! I’m a long time reader of your blog, and I like the content you put up, your sense of humor, and the hope you give to people who struggle at dating. The problem I want to talk you about is that I have…

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My Crush Sends Me Flirty Texts When She’s Drunk. What Do I Do?

Jan 20, 2021

Greetings, Doc. I’ve never done this before, so I don’t know what to expect or truly ask for. I’ve known this girl since high-school, which was 5 or 6 years ago. We were pretty close for some time, before I joined the Army in 2015 and she joined the Air Force in 2016. She’s known…

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How Do I Know if I Even WANT a Relationship?

Jan 18, 2021

Doctor’s Note: Hey NerdLovers! It’s a new year and I want to help start 2021 off on a positive note. So I want to hear from you: what are some of your relationship wins? How have you improved your personal life, your friendships or your romantic relationships? What are some of the ways you’ve made…

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