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Archives for April 2021

We Haven’t Had Sex in Months. Is My Husband Cheating On Me?

Apr 30, 2021

Dear Dr. NerdLove, My husband and I (he’s a straight man and I’m a bi woman) have been together for 25 years, and most of the time I see him as the best partner possible. Loving, kind, thoughtful, funny, and a wonderful father. Where things aren’t so great is our sex life. Up until last…

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The 5 Steps To Upgrading Your Life

Apr 28, 2021

During the early days of the COVID-19 pandemic, there was a lot of talk about how this was an opportunity to do things differently. Now that everyone was in lockdown, they had absolutely nothing else to do but work on themselves. Sure they had to balance work, relationships, trying to meet basic needs without catching…

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Am I An Asshole If I Don’t Want to Settle for Someone In My “League”?

Apr 26, 2021

Dear Dr. NerdLove, My entire family is dead, and I’ve been living with my only close and reasonably well-off friend and her husband since losing my job and housing in the summer of 2020. I have severe anxiety and a number of physical health issues that all together mean I am not capable of working…

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Ask Dr. NerdLove: What Does Confidence Look Like in Dating?

Apr 23, 2021

Hi Doc! I see a lot of advice about what confidence looks like in men (body language, especially), but I don’t know what confidence looks like for me as a woman. Most flirting behavior for women seems to be based on submission cues, but everyone says to be “confident” while flirting. While I know submissive…

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My Brother’s An Incel and I Don’t Know What To Do…

Apr 21, 2021

Hi Doc, I’m hoping you can help. Recently my brother and I got into an argument. I was talking about the new Zack Snyder’s Netflix film Army of the Dead and my brother mentioned he did not like said director. When I asked why he brought up that the YouTube channel Geeks and Gamers had…

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Did I Miss My Only Chance To Lose My Virginity?

Apr 19, 2021

Hello, Doc. Your audience base went worldwide. Congrats ! Now, I’ve been severely repressed by family and religion for years. Forced to see people having fun and enjoying life while I was always locked in a room studying and praying. As a result, I never learned how to read social cues, or how to talk…

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