Dr. NerdLove: My husband suggested recently we move to a cheaper city so we could by a house in cash, free and clear. He also detests this area for a number of reasons, homelessness, high cost of living, etc. But the way I look at it, it would disrupt a pretty good situation we have…
Archives for July 2021
Why Am I Struggling With Online Dating?
Dear Dr. NerdLove, So, I’m a 34 year old lesbian in a somewhat unusual situation. I’ve been happily married to my wife for the last five years; however, she’s asexual. Fortunately, we’re poly, and so she’s encouraged me to find sexual fulfillment outside of our relationship. Unfortunately, it turns out this is much easier said…
Am I Supposed To Be Angry At My Husband Over Our Sex Life?
Dear Dr. NerdLove: So, I have a husband that I recently married and I love him dearly. We both have autism and have dated eight years before we got married and he wanted to wait until marriage which I was totally fine with. As a demisexual, it took me three years to even want to…
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Am I Too Aggressive When I’m Looking For Dates?
Hey Doc, Thanks as always for your tireless service! You are definitely still the best purveyor of dating advice on the internet. I think I have an issue that I haven’t seen you talk about before… I (30, cis, straight, F) have been single for a *long* time, and in general I find that when…
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This Is How You Reboot Your Life
Last year was a year of a lot of changes and some heavy losses. It was the sort of year that makes you take a long hard look at your life and decide to make some changes. Like a soldier in the trenches of Verdun, you find yourself thinking of all the things you’re going to…
How Do I Get Over My Partner’s Infidelity?
Hi Dr. NerdLove, My partner (he/him) of five years violated the boundaries/understandings of our monogamous relationship by receiving a one-way sex act from a friend of his. While I’ve agreed to stay and try to move past it, I haven’t decided the long term and taken off the engagement ring. I’m having a having a…
