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Archives for August 2021

What Do You Do When Someone You Love Is A Stalker?

Aug 30, 2021

Dear Dr. NerdLove, I’ve got this ex, and we’re friends. We’re exes because the stars didn’t align for us, and that’s it. We’ve been close for ten years, on and off, and I really love her. We’ll call her Amber. Seven years ago, her boyfriend, we’ll call him Cory, ghosted her (but didn’t block her…

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Ask Dr. NerdLove: Why Is It So Hard For Me To Meet Women?

Aug 27, 2021

Hello Doc, I have never had much luck dating. Whenever I ask anyone about this, they tell me I need to focus on myself. I need to find interests, work out, work on other goals. Then I do all of that… but still no luck. Then I’m told I need to do them for their…

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Why Do I Keep Hurting Myself?

Aug 25, 2021

Doctor’s Note: this column includes discussion of self-harm Hi Doc, I don’t know how to explain this, so I’ll give some background. I’m a 25 guy who never kissed a girl or held hands and so on. I’ve been rejected all my life and in many mean ways, always being told I was too ugly,…

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Ask Dr. NerdLove: I’m Worried Women Will Think I’m Creepy

Aug 23, 2021

Hi Doc, whenever I’m out and see someone that I like, the three man things that come to my head are: 1. “She probably been asked out by many guys, better not bother her like the others” 2. “She is just being nice and I’ll just make it weird, better not bother her”. 3. “I…

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My Boyfriend Used To Date My Son And I Don’t Know What To Do

Aug 20, 2021

Dear Dr. NerdLove: I recently met a man on a dating site. He’s younger but I think I’m over that part. When we first started talking, when I asked his last name it sounded familiar and I asked if he had relatives near where my son lives. I mentioned my son’s name, and he said…

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Why It’s So Difficult To Make Positive Changes

Aug 18, 2021

Well, today was going to be a return to some practical topics. I’d been working on a column about approaching people and being able to talk to strangers. I had all my notes wrapped up, I had the rough outline ready to go… and then, well, you know how to make the gods laugh, right?…

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