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Archives for September 2021

These Mistakes Ruin Relationships (Before They Can Even Start)

Sep 29, 2021

Here’s a truth: relationships end. Sometimes they end because the relationship came to its natural conclusion; it was a relationship that was right for that particular place and time, and the people involved outgrew the relationship. Other times, however, relationships end because the relationship itself didn’t work. Someone wasn’t happy, someone found that their needs…

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What If He’s NOT Man Enough?

Sep 27, 2021

Hi Dr. NerdLove,  I was inspired to write this based on the headline of your recent article and how you’ve talked about archetypes in previous columns. Do you have any advice for or places to look for men who don’t really identify under the banner of masculinity in general? I know you’ve pushed the idea…

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How Do You Tell If Someone Is Just Playing Games?

Sep 24, 2021

Dear Dr. NerdLove: I’m a gay man. In my tennis group there is a 32 year old guy that I find very attractive, who I have known for about 3 years. We were never close friends, but rather just friendly acquaintances. About 6 months ago, out of the blue, he started sending me direct messages,…

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Did Too Much Porn Give Him Erectile Dysfunction?

Sep 22, 2021

Dear Dr. NerdLove, I know your stance on porn already, but I was hoping to take it a step further and ask what you think about porn-induced erectile dysfunction (PIED) Recently I was with my girlfriend getting intimate, and when it came time to do the deed my little friend became my little enemy. Our…

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Why Is She Good Enough to Flirt With, But Not Good Enough to Date?

Sep 20, 2021

Hi, Doc! I (F, straight, cis, 29) am really fucking furious about something and I think I need a guy with lots of male-female insight to talk me off the ledge. In a therapy session last night with my AMAZING sex therapist (whom I decided to start seeing a few months ago to work out…

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When Do I Tell Women About My Unusual Hobbies?

Sep 17, 2021

Hello Doc, I’m a 43 year old single dad who has a lot on his plate right now. Probably too much, at least the way I see it, to pursue a serious relationship. I’m also a late bloomer, so in my case dates and sexual encounters have been rare, other than the one relationship I’ve…

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