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Archives for December 2021

Do I Have To Choose Between Love and Good Sex?

Dec 31, 2021

Hi Doctor, Recently, I’ve be doing a lot of self reflection and realized one big issue I deal with is loneliness. However, another thing I’ve come to question is my use of porn and my consumption of porn, especially my use of hard-core material. I’ve come to realise I feel unable to consume “regular” or…

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Should I Leave My Girlfriend To Pursue My Crush?

Dec 29, 2021

Hi Doc, I’ve been reading your column for many years and found that thinking of what advice would I give first and then comparing it with your answer is a great way to gradually calibrate my views about relationships. So I figured I would ask for your holy Chair Leg now since I have no…

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What’s The Right Way To Ask Someone Out?

Dec 27, 2021

Hi Dr. NerdLove: First of all, I’m really glad that I found you at a time when I decided to get out of my bubble and open myself to relationships and all other possibilities. I’m 22, and frankly, I haven’t dated before. I realize I was in a cocoon for so long, and I’m from…

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Illustration from A Christmas Carol, featuring members of the League of Extremely Ordinary Gentlemen and regular guests as characters from the story. Dr. NerdLove is the Ghost of Christmas Present

Blast From The Past: A Holiday League Of Extremely Ordinary Gentlemen Special

Dec 22, 2021

Here’s a nostalgia hit for my long, long-time readers: the LEOG Christmas Carol, with art by Nate Bliss and colors by Grant Davis. Can you identify all the League members and guests?

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Happy Holidays! No New Column This Week…

Dec 20, 2021

Hey all, just a quick programming note: because of the holiday season, travel, etc. there won’t be a new column this week. I’ll rerun a couple of old favorites on Wednesday and Friday, and there’ll be a lighter schedule for the last week of the year. Normal service will resume January 3rd, 2021. In the…

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How Do I Tell My Friend He’s A Being a Sexist Asshole?

Dec 17, 2021

Hey Doc, Let me apologize in advance for rambling. There’s a lot to tell and I desperately need to vent, but I’ll try to stick to the pertinent points. The background: I (cis straight woman) met ‘Ray’ (cis straight man) five years ago when we worked together. We are not kids. I’m divorced and he’s…

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