Dear Dr. NerdLove: First off, I’ve been following you for a while and, as far as I’m concerned, nobody else on the internet can destigmatize male virginity as well as you can. With that said, I think that the line between an incel and a sexually frustrated men is very thin, and all over the…
Archives for April 2022
Everyone But Me Is Getting Married But Me, And I Hate It
Dear Dr. NerdLove, I have been with my boyfriend for over 12 years. We are happily in love, our sex life is great, and we are truly best friends as well as romantic partners in life. We bought our own home together in 2020 after living together since 2010. He does not want to get…
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How Do I Talk About Sexual Assault With My Boyfriend?
Doctor’s Note: Today’s column involves discussion of rape and sexual assault. Dear Doc, I want to include a trigger warning at the start of this letter, in case you post it verbatim, that this letter discusses sexual assault and rape. I am a rape survivor. To be clear, I’m not looking for advice on how…
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What Does My Husband’s Kink Say About Our Relationship?
Hi there Dr. Nerd Love, I came across your column this morning after having oddly enough, a very unsettling/confusing discussion with my husband of 25 years the night before, about his new sexual desires. So I don’t drag this out too long, let me hit the highlights of what has prompted me to reach out…
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5 Mistakes That Keep You From Finding A Relationship
We talk a lot about what it takes to become someone that women want to date – working from the internal to the external, from attitude to presentation. But there’re times when it feels like you’re in a classic Red Queen’s Race: running as fast as you can and getting nowhere. Sure, you’re putting in…
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Why Do I Feel Insecure With My Girlfriend?
Hello Doc! I have a problem and I feel very stupid asking this but… the girl I’m currently dating use to date a bodybuilder and, well, I’m not muscular. That alone triggers my alarms; why would a girl who dated a guy with perfect body want to date me? I can not offer her a…
